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If you know or work with a deeply troubled teen, you might consider asking them about their dreams. If they report frequent disturbing dreams or nightmares, they are at a greater risk for suicide. The link between adult suicide and nightmare frequency has been well established, and a new study extends this correlation to young adolescents. The good news is that nightmares are treatable, and some very simple steps can make a meaningful difference.
In a recent study based in Montreal, Canada, Aline Gauchat and colleagues studied both the dreams and suicidal ideation of 170 children when they were 12 and again at age 13. Disturbed dreaming tends to lessen with age and did so in this sample. At the same time, the rate of suicidal ideation increased, and analysis of the data showed that the adolsecents who had suicidal ideation had significantly more disturbing and recurring dreams.
This is another piece of mounting evidence that when working with those with a potential risk of suicide (for example those with depression, borderline personality or a history of complex trauma) you should ask about nightmares as part of the screening process.
Why we should ask about nightmares
Dr. Michael Nadorff, who has conducted several studies linking nightmares and suicide, noted with dismay that in the past 50 years, we have not become any better at predicting suicide. Paying attention to dreams, in particular the frequency of disturbing dreams and nightmares, is one way to help determine who is most at risk.
The other important thing to note with respect to the nightmare-suicide link is that effective nightmare treatments are available. In his talk on nightmares at the recent (June, 2021) conference for the International Association for the Study of Dreams, Nadorff noted that of those with dangerously troubling dreams, only one person in ten might report this to a mental health professional. There are a couple of reasons for this: those with frequent nightmares don’t always realize that such dreaming is not typical. And very few people are aware that nightmares can be treated. People also hesitate to talk about their nightmares for fear of being judged for the dark images that haunt their sleep.
However, talking about nightmares, and getting treatment can have positive effects that extend beyond the simple reduction in the frequency and distress caused by disturbing dreams. In general, symptoms of depression and trauma dissipate, and although this has not been specifically studied, it is fair to suggest the risk of suicide drops significantly as well.
Instilling Hope
When asked what he thought made nightmare sufferers more likely to consider taking their own life, Nadorff said he thinks a lack of hope is a major contributing factor. For frequent nightmare sufferers, even sleep is not a refuge from their tortured thoughts. Those contemplating suicide report deep loneliness and a sense that they are a burden to those closest to them. He suggests intensive support for those whose risk of suicude is high, stressing that the periods of high risk are time-limited.
Treating the nightmares of those contemplating suicide is also something Nadorff recommends, though this idea has not taken hold very widely, at least not yet. But Imagery Rehearsal Therapy (IRT), lucid dreaming, and several other nightmare treatment protocols demonstrate that it can be fairly quick and easy to reduce nightmares and their related distress. In my survey of the nightmare literature, I have found that virtually all methods researchers tried seemed to help, and adverse effects seemed absent.
The common denominators in nightmare treatment include instilling hope by teaching those with nightmares that they are treatable and it is entirely possible to change their dream life for the better. The other key elements of treatment are to write, rescript or re-imagine a new ending to their nightmare, ideally one that gives them a sense of mastery over the challenge presented in their dreams. They can, for example, develop a superpower that enables them to escape or overpower their attacker. In my experience, the more richly imagined this new dream ending is, the more power it has to change subsequent dreams. If it sounds too simple, don’t be fooled… it can really be that easy to make a meaningful difference, possibly even save a life.
Some further resources:
Help for nightmare sufferers (free PDF) CLICK HERE
A short focused course on nightmare treatment for clinicians CLICK HERE
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References
Gauchat, A., Zadra, A., El Hourani, M., Parent, S., Renaud, J., Tremblay, R. E., and Seguin, J. R. (2021). Association Between Recurrent Dreams, Disturbing Dreams, and Suicidal Ideation in Adolescents. Dreaming 31(1), 32-43.
Nadorff, M. (2021). Invited talk for the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD) Online Conference, June 13-17, 2021.