In focusing with dreams, I usually begin by facilitating a search for helpful elements. One of the most consistently supportive places comes from the natural world: trees, beautiful landscapes, animals, ocean… all of these images seem to call us back into a sense of connection we knew about instinctively as children, but may have lost along the way
“I deeply believe that we are all connected,” says dean diamond, a focusing coordinator-in-training who is offering a nature-based certification program beginning in March. Dean is a Nature Guided Focusing Oriented Therapist and Sandplay Therapy Intern who I have the privilege of mentoring as he develops his own focusing program. He said he has found that focusing allows both therapist and client to reconnect with our innate sense of connectedness to the natural world. When this happens, we become deeply resourced, he says, because we are re connecting with source.
I am reminded of the Mary Oliver poem, Wild Geese, which speaks to her deep connection with the natural world, and how universal this possibility is. Here is an excerpt:
You do not have to be good
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves…
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
The world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting –
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.
Dean is offering his two-year program in person on his retreat property in the Cowichan Valley on Vancouver Island, British Columbia to a small group of students. He wants to dispel the sense that his way of working is as simple as a walk in the forest. “You don’t have to go outside, but can also go inside, to connect with Nature.” Going inside refers to sensing into the body in a focusing-oriented way – which invites open curiosity and acceptance, a process that opens us up to many avenues of experience, including a reminder of our lost connection to the web of life.
Children do not see the natural world as an object, says dean. Somewhere along the way, this subject-to-subject connection gets lost for many of us, creating a disconnect and a sense of dominion over animals and nature that interferes with our innate sense of belonging to it and with it. His program includes modules on dreams, focusing, nature, play, social justice and sexuality – all ways of restoring the sense of deep connection to ourselves and the natural world, both within and without. For more information, go to hearthplace.ca