Does Your Child Have Nightmares?

When should you be concerned, and what should you do?

All of us can clearly recall at least one heart-pounding, fear-inducing nightmare from childhood that startled us out of our sleep. Whether it was a chasing dragon or a precipitous fall from a great height, it felt so real it left us shaken long after awakening. However, as adults we know that there isn’t a monster under our beds waiting to snatch us, even if we just dreamt about one. For children, nightmares can be confusing because they feel so very real. And as young children, the line between fantasy and reality is blurred,

Nightmares are completely normal phenomena, especially for children. They usually begin between age 2-4 and tail off by age 10-12. They are a developmental process and are a normal response to fear. They can be triggered by stressful events like starting school, family illness or conflict. In fact, nightmares can actually help process emotional events.

However, despite their potential to be helpful, nightmares do cause considerable distress and can disrupt sleep. So how can you help your child if they have frequent and distressing dreams?

  1. OFFER COMFORT AND SAFETY

Give them a hug, let them know they’re safe, that they’re not alone. Their nervous system is in a charged state. They need soothing to restore a sense of safety in their bodies.

  1. DON’T DISMISS DREAMS

Don’t try to talk them out of their experience or dismiss their dream using logic. In an attempt to offer comfort, don’t say, “It was just a dream, it’s not real” and expect that to be the end of it. Children experience their dreams as very real, and for certain, the intense feelings nightmares stir up are tangibly experienced.

  1. NORMALIZE TALKING ABOUT DREAMS

Ask your child about their nightmares. If they feel okay telling you about it, listen to the story of their dream. Sharing it with you will help take away some of the charge. It gives them a way to talk about their fears. There may be pressures they are facing that you have no idea about. Growing up is fraught with uncertainty and challenges that may seem inconsequential from an adult perspective.

Some children rarely articulate what’s scary for them, so we don’t get a chance to dispel needless worries or offer help. But their nightmares can do the talking for them in the form of metaphors and expressions of their main concerns.

Keep tabs on your child’s dream life, especially if it seems unusually dark and disturbing. If you make talking about dreams a normal part of the routine, you’ll know how often your child has nightmares and how distressing they are. You’ll be in a good position to know if professional help is warranted. And you will have gathered useful information to convey to a therapist about your child’s sleep.

  1. WHEN TO CONSIDER PROFESSIONAL HELP

Nightmares are considered chronic if they happen every week or more for at least 6 months. Fully 5% of children between the ages of 3-10 experience chronic nightmares, and for many, this is a normal developmental process. However, if chronic nightmares persist past about age 10, they are more likely to continue into adolescence and beyond. Age 9-11 is a critical juncture, a time to consider treatment if your child continues to have frequent, distressing nightmares.

Fortunately, effective treatment is available.

Imagery Rehearsal Therapy, (IRT) has been found to be effective in numerous controlled clinical trials in adult populations (ie with veterans and rape victims). This evidence has also been extended to children in a number of smaller studies that have shown it to reduce nightmare frequency, distress and general anxiety in children. Results were sustained 6-9 months post-treatment.

Imagery Rehearsal Therapy (IRT) is the most highly-recommended approach to nightmare treatment for any age group. Other protocols, like Exposure, Relaxation and Rescripting (ERRT) appear to work as well, but have simply not been studied as much. IRT is a non-invasive, cognitive behavioural approach that simply asks the dreamer to imagine and rehearse a new dream ending. This seeds a new story that often weaves its way into future dreams. One study showed that some children using IRT spontaneously became lucid after treatment and were able to alter their nightmares from right inside the dream.

  1. TRY DREAM THERAPY AT HOME

The original protocol for IRT suggests changing the dream in any way you want. However, for children, I recommend asking them the shift the dream in ways that help them feel better about the dream, ideally ways that bring a sense of hope and mastery.

To try your own version of this approach, first help your child feel safe and calm. Then ask them to recall their nightmare briefly, perhaps just up to the place where they might want something about the dream to change. Then ask them what they imagine could happen next in the dream to make the dream better. For example, ask what form of help, escape route, magic or superpower they might want to use. Let them know it’s their dream, and they can change it it any way they like.

For example, suppose your child dreams there is an evil monster under the bed, lurking and waiting for a limb to dangle over the edge so it can grab an arm or leg and drag them under. You could ask your child to imagine going back into their dream, to the part before it got scary. They could change the dream so what’s now under the bed is a favorite toy, perhaps a cuddly teddy bear that comes to life and takes them off to play in the clouds.

Or they might dream of a fire-breathing dragon chasing them. Often, it can really help to turn and face the dragon or monster, to really see it and perhaps ask what it wants. I did this with my daughter, reminding her of how I often sang Puff the Magic Dragon to her at bedtime. Her dream dragon became like Puff — lonely and in need of a friend. When playing with how to rescript nightmare, encourage children to give their imagination free rein, offer suggestions and keep it positive.

After rescripting, a further step in IRT is to rehearse the new dream ending, something children may need to be reminded to do. You can do a number of things to reinforce the new dream imagery for a child. You might suggest they draw a picture of it, imagine it again during the day, and/or tell you about it again as you tuck them in at bedtime.

What happens when we reimagine our nightmares or help our kids to do so? Sometimes the new dream ending becomes incorporated into future dreams, making them less frightening. Other times, people report a new ability to change their dreams from within. And sometimes the nightmare just stops coming. If the process doesn’t work the first time, try again, and play with different dreams as they come up. Do seek professional help if chronic nightmares persist or the process itself is upsetting (this is extremely rare). With the right support, and in time, your child will have fewer, less distressing nightmares. They may even come to cherish their dreams.

 

Are you a parent concerned about the frequency and intensity of your child’s bad dreams? Should you be concerned?
Learn more about Nightmare Relief for Everyone designed by nightmare expert Dr. Leslie Ellis, this self-paced user-friendly and accessible online course covers the very latest in science and research about what nightmares are, and what they’re not. Leslie offers some simple steps you can take to get some relief from nightmares and other nocturnal disturbances – both for yourself and for others, including your children.

 

References

Fernandez, S., DeMarni Cromer, L., Borntrager, C., Swopes, R., Hanson, R. F., & Davis, J. L. (2013). A Case Series: Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment (Exposure, Relaxation, and Rescripting Therapy) of Trauma-Related Nightmares Experienced by Children. Clinical Case Studies12(1), 39–59. https://doi.org/10.1177/1534650112462623

Mélanie St-Onge, Pierre Mercier & Joseph De Koninck (2009) Imagery Rehearsal Therapy for Frequent Nightmares in Children, Behavioral Sleep Medicine, 7:2, 81-98, DOI: 10.1080/15402000902762360

Schredl, M., Fricke-Oerkermann, L., Mitschke, A., Wiater, A., & Lehmkuhl, G. (2009). Factors affecting nightmares in children: parents’ vs. children’s ratings. European child & adolescent psychiatry18(1), 20–25. https://doi.org/10.1007/s00787-008-0697-5

Schredl, M., Fricke-Oerkermann, L., Mitschke, A. et al. Longitudinal Study of Nightmares in Children: Stability and Effect of Emotional Symptoms. Child Psychiatry Hum Dev 40, 439–449 (2009). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10578-009-0136-y

Simard, V., & Nielsen, T. (2009). Adaptation of imagery rehearsal therapy for nightmares in children: A brief report. Psychotherapy: Theory, Research, Practice, Training, 46(4), 492–497. https://doi.org/10.1037/a0017945

Does Your Child Wake Up Screaming? How to understand and treat night terrors

I used to dread going to bed when we lived in my lovely heritage apartment in Vancouver. Every night, about two hours after falling asleep, I would be startled awake by the most blood-curdling, agonizing screaming from the woman next door. Her window faced ours, and she sounded as though she was being murdered in her sleep almost every night. I wondered why no one would wake her up or help her. I have since learned that this would not have done much good as she was having night terrors.

So many people I’ve spoken with about this have suffered the same thing with their children. Night terrors are fairly common in very young children, affecting 20-40% of children under age 3, and 3-14% of school age children, but just 2% of adults (APA 2013). In a typical episode, parents will put their child quietly to bed only to hear them thrashing and screaming in terror about three hours later. The kids were hard to fully wake up, disoriented and confused, often with little or no memory of the incident in the morning.

Night terrors are often mistaken for nightmares. At a recent talk I gave about nightmares, most of the questions were actually about night terrors – from desperate parents wanting to know if there was something they could do about them. I treat nightmares, not night terrors, but I did some investigation, and there are a few things to know and to do that can help. First and foremost, know that they are generally benign and kids usually grow out of them.

Who Has Night Terrors?

Before I get into some of the ways you can help your child with their night terrors, it helps to understand what they are, who has them and why. A thorough survey of the literature suggests that although the exact cause is not well understood, genetic, developmental, environmental, psychological and organic factors can all play a part.

Night terrors most common in early childhood. A longitudinal study (Petit et al., 2015) of 1,940 children from Quebec found that 34% of children aged 18 months experience night terrors, 13% at age 5, and 5% at age 13. A recent review (Leung et al., 2020) found the peak may be later, at age 5-7 years. Either way, sleep terrors typically start at a very young age and stop at adolescence. It’s rare that the condition continues into adulthood – although for some it can switch to sleepwalking.

Sleep terrors are more common under a number of conditions that can be controlled, at least to some degree, such as: sleep deprivation, going to bed with a full bladder, emotional stress, anxiety (including separation anxiety), bullying, a noisy sleeping environment and excessive alcohol or caffeine. Other factors associated with this parasomnia include: febrile illness (unexplained fever), ADHD, autism, epilepsy, sleep apnea and PTSD. Some medications, especially those that are sedative, can lead to night terrors because they increase the duration of non-REM, the deep sleep stage in which these episodes occur.

It bears repeating the while night terrors are very distressing and can disrupt sleep for both children and their parents, they are not considered dangerous. They warrant clinical attention only if they are severe enough to disrupt daytime functioning. If you are considering consulting a doctor, keep a sleep diary and track BEARS. Not the big furry animal, but the 5-item assessment tool for children with sleep problems (Owens & Dalzell, 2005):

  • B: bedtime issues
  • E: excessive daytime sleepiness
  • A: night awakenings
  • R: regularity and duration of sleep
  • S: snoring

What Are Night Terrors?

In a typical episode, the child will sit bolt upright or even jump out of bed, heart racing, screaming in terror. They may speak, but what they say will be confused and incoherent because although they appear to be awake, they are in a hybrid sleep-wake state. They will be difficult to wake fully because these episodes occur during very deep (slow-wave) sleep. It’s best not to wake them up during an episode, and typically they won’t recall a thing in the morning.

Night terrors are distinguished from nightmares because they happen in the first half of the night associated with the deeper (stage 3 and 4) of non-REM sleep, while nightmares mainly occur in the second half, and are associated more with REM sleep and dreaming. Nightmares are clearly recalled in vivid detail, and those who have them tend not to thrash around and scream.

Night terrors are much more common in children. When they continue into adulthood, they look a bit different. While two-thirds of children have no recollection after episodes of night terrors or sleepwalking, the same proportion of adults do recall at least one experience and remember their episodes about half the time (Castelnovo, et al., 2021). For adults, night terrors appear to be more of a dissociative experience, and can be accompanied by hallucinations.

What you can do about night terrors

While none of the suggestions below work all the time, there are a number of things you can try to reduce or even eliminate night terrors. Excellent sleep hygiene (such as regular bedtimes; limiting screen time, no food and drink before bed, especially sugar and caffeine; dark, cool quiet bedroom; and wind-down rituals like story time) can all help reduce night terrors. Parents can also do their best to limit stresses on kids who have night terrors – things like bullying and separation anxiety might be addressed. Interestingly, psychological factors are found to be mostly associated with night terrors in teens and adults, but not children.

Wake-up treatment. One treatment that has met with some success is to wake a person up about half an hour before they would typically have an episode. If you do this for two weeks, it can break the cycle and stop it from recurring. In some cases, however, the episodes simply start occurring later in the night.

Co-sleeping. One interesting paper (Boyden, Pott & Starks, 2018) suggests that sleeping with your child stops night terrors, especially with very young children. The authors say that evolution did not design humans to sleep alone when very young and that “night terrors are the result of an environmental mismatch between evolved behaviour and the modern cultural practice of solitary sleeping.” This solution has not been empirically tested, but anecdotally, it appears to work for many.

The bottom line is that while night terrors can seem extreme, they are usually benign and your child will experience them less and less over time. There are a number of things you can try, such as good sleep hygiene, limiting stress, waking them prior to an episode and co-sleeping. To all those exhausted parents reading this, I hope it has been of some help.

References

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Leung, A. K. C., Leung, A. A. M., Wong, A. H. C., & Lun Hon, K. (2020). Sleep terrors: an updated review. Current Pediatric Reviews, 16(3), 176-182.

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Are you a parent concerned about the frequency and intensity of your child’s bad dreams? Should you be concerned?
Learn more about Nightmare Relief for Everyone designed by nightmare expert Dr. Leslie Ellis, this self-paced user-friendly and accessible online course covers the very latest in science and research about what nightmares are, and what they’re not. Leslie offers some simple steps you can take to get some relief from nightmares and other nocturnal disturbances – both for yourself and for others, including your children.

Dream Changes During the Pandemic Reflect Massive Collective Trauma

A multinational study concludes that dreams are a reflection of massive collective trauma, and that dreams and dream recall must be integrated into approaches for improving mental health and health in general.

By Dr. Leslie Ellis

Since the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic, the world has collectively been dreaming more, and our dreams have reflected the rise in stress levels, fear and uncertainty. A group of 23 researchers from 14 countries teamed up to take an in-depth look at how the pandemic has affected our dream recall and how this impacts health and mental health. They conclude that dreams are “an often-forgotten expression of the existential situation of individuals” and that they need to be integrated into how we understand and support mental health.

A recent multinational study of more than 19,000 adults explored the associations between dream recall frequency and related social, health and mental health factors, comparing data prior to and during the pandemic across four continents and 14 countries. Higher dream recall was linked with nightmares, sleep talking, recurrent disturbing thoughts and PTSD symptoms. As in previous studies, this one showed that women have been affected more than men, but also that those aged 55-64 had lower dream recall than younger people.

While the higher intensity of emotion during the pandemic has generated more dream recall — associated with more PTSD symptoms, problems with sleep maintenance, more nightmares and parasomnias — there is one interesting finding that bears further inquiry. Contrary to earlier studies, in the one, high dream recall was negatively associated with depression and anxiety. This could be because dreaming can help regulate the strong emotions people are experiencing in these turbulent times. However, the authors speculate that it could also be the result of the dream-dampening effect of anti-depressant medication. They said not enough specific data was collected to solve this riddle.

The study’s authors wrote: “The COVID-19 crisis has touched every person in the world in some way, whether it is related to becoming infected, suffering financially, through reduced social contacts, missed opportunities, or an inability to get required supplies and materials. It has become a communal trauma that has a profound impact on people around the world. One of the most difficult aspects of the pandemic is social isolation and confinement. Solitude goes against our inborn social instincts to form and maintain relationships as human beings and live in herd- or swarm-like alignments. Recent research has shown that the pandemic has led to increased anxiety levels, panic attacks, irrational fears, post-traumatic stress, depression, fatigue, reduced sleep quality, and sleep disturbances. Given the effects it has had on our everyday lives, perhaps it is unsurprising that COVID-19 has crept into our dreams.”

Earlier, smaller studies in various parts of the world (China, Italy, USA) have corroborated the findings that our dreams have been more intense and frequent during the pandemic, and that there are differences in how men and women have been dreaming. For example, a US study found that women with higher education were affected more than others, and several Italian studies showed that while all of us have experienced an increase in dream recall, women have been more affected.

“Since the pandemic has reportedly led to worsened mental health and higher levels of depression, anxiety, distress and symptoms of PTSD, heightened dream recall frequency might be an expression of the current mental health status,” according to the study authors. Women may be more affected as they have had to face more of the load – including increased childcare and health care responsibilities and greater job losses.

In their concluding comments, the authors called for more attention to dreams in mental health care and in general. “Dreams and dream activity are an often-forgotten expression of the existential situation of individuals. Based on our results, we assume that disruption in sleep patterns due to changes caused by the pandemic explains the increase in dream recall. Additionally, we propose that the observed increased dream recall frequency in our sample is an expression of the emotional intense and demanding experience of the current situation and could be an indicator that the pandemic is indeed turning into a collective trauma… Therefore, dreams and dream recall deserve more attention as potential support for coping with crisis situations, such as the COVID-19 pandemic and overall in supporting psychological wellbeing. Dreams and dream recall need to be accepted more and integrated into approaches for improving mental health and health in general.”

 

If you are a mental health professional interested in learning more about nightmares, parasomnias, and their treatment, sign up for my short, focused online course. Because I feel this material is important to disseminate, the course is always open, is self-paced, and discounted during the pandemic. Please ask your clients if they have nightmares, and let them know they are treatable.

 

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References

Fränkl E, Scarpelli S, Nadorff MR, Bjorvatn B, Bolstad CJ, Chan NY, Chung F, Dauvilliers Y, Espie CA, Inoue Y, Leger D, Macêdo T, Matsui K, Merikanto I, Morin CM, Mota-Rolim S, Partinen M, Penzel T, Plazzi G, Sieminski M, Wing YK, De Gennaro L, Holzinger B. How our Dreams Changed During the COVID-19 Pandemic: Effects and Correlates of Dream Recall Frequency – a Multinational Study on 19,355 Adults. Nat Sci Sleep. 2021;13:1573-1591
https://doi.org/10.2147/NSS.S324142

Iorio I, Sommantico M, Parrello S. Dreaming in the time of COVID-19: a quali-quantitative Italian study. Dreaming. 2020;30(3):199–215. doi:10.1037/drm0000142

Nielsen T. Infectious dreams. How the COVID-19 pandemic is changing our sleeping lives. Sci Am. 2020;323:31–35.

Pesonen A-K, Lipsanen J, Halonen R, et al. Pandemic dreams: network analysis of dream content during the COVID-19 lockdown. Front Psychol. 2020;11:2569. doi:10.3389/fpsyg.2020.573961

Scarpelli S, Alfonsi V, Mangiaruga A, et al. Pandemic nightmares: effects on dream activity of the COVID-19 lockdown in Italy. J Sleep Res. 2021;e13300. doi:10.1111/jsr.13300

Schredl M, Bulkeley K. Dreaming and the COVID-19 pandemic: a survey in a U.S. sample. Dreaming. 2020;30(3):189–198. doi:10.1037/drm0000146

 

Sleep quality and PTSD: A bidirectional link

If you want to effectively treat PTSD, it’s critical to address sleep issues, including nightmares. Currently, there is too little integration of sleep and trauma-focused therapies for the treatment of PTSD according to the authors of a comprehensive review of sleep disorders and PTSD. Weber and Wetter’s (2021) survey of the literature shows that intervening in sleep disturbances also helps daytime PTSD symptoms and may even offer a preventative effect.

 

Sleep problems, a core feature of PTSD, include nightmares, insomnia and nocturnal anxiety. The authors found little evidence for the long-term effectiveness of medication for insomnia and nightmares and called for a more complex and integrated approach to psychological treatment. They stress the importance of addressing sleep issues, noting that sleep problems and PTSD have a bidirectional link. Sleep issues can predispose a person to PTSD and perpetuate it.

 

“Interventions that enable people to sleep better are likely to be of particular therapeutic importance, as they may have immediate remedial effect on PTSD symptoms,” according to the authors. More than 90 percent of those with PTSD also have sleep problems that include post-traumatic nightmares, and difficulty falling and staying asleep. They can also ruminate at night, talk in their sleep, wake up disoriented and suffer from parasomnias.

 

PTSD associated with alterations in the nervous system and sleep architecture

There is much evidence to show that those with PTSD have low parasympathetic tone while awake and resting, and increased sympathetic activation during sleep, especially during REM when most dreaming occurs. It is now considered established that altered heart-rate variability (HRV), a measure often used to assess the state of the nervous system, increases the likelihood of developing PTSD after trauma.

 

The sleep patterns of those with PTSD differs in many measurable ways from normal, healthy sleep, indicating they sleep less deeply, and spend less time in restorative, regulating slow-wave sleep. Sleep spindles, bursts of brain activity that can be seen on EEG readouts during stage 2 non-REM sleep, are associated with memory consolidation and neuroplasticity. These are altered in those with PTSD sufferers. Similar disruptions in sleep spindle patterns were also found recently in those with nightmares associated with early childhood adversity – a finding that suggests trauma nightmares and so-called idiopathic nightmares (of unknown origin) may not be so easily differentiated (Nielsen et al. , 2019). REM sleep patterns are also altered in PTSD in ways that fragment this dream-rich phase of sleep that has been shown to help regulate emotion and attenuate fear and distress.

 

Sleep disturbances are linked to increased suicidality and self-harming behaviours. PTSD is also a risk factor for suicide. Weber and Wetter (2021) note that reciprocal influences of sleep, PTSD and suicide are well documented but not well understood. They do, however, cite a study that suggests “targeted treatment of sleep disorders and nightmares could contrubute to reducing the risk of suicidality in PTSD patients (Bishop et al., 2020).

 

Treatment of PSTD and Sleep Disorder Must Be Integrated

While PTSD treatment helps with insomnia and nightmares, and treatment of sleep problems helps with daytime PTSD symptoms, the two approaches are rarely integrated. The authors note several effective psychotherapeutic approaches to treating nightmares, including IRT, ERRT and EMDR. They also review pharmacological interventions, and the evidence is less favorable. They also studied the impact of sleep inteventions post-trauma as a way to prevent PTSD, and again the evidence was not conclusive.

 

In their conclusions, Webe and Wetter say there is “robust evidence” for psychotherapeutic inteventions and less evidence for medication as a treatment for PTSD. “Integrative concepts and optimized algorithms for sleep and daytime symptoms are needed.” These may also help reduce the risk of suicide, and in future, even prevent the development of PTSD following trauma.

 

References

Bishop T. M., Walsh P. G., Ashrafioun L., Lavigne J.E., Pigeon W. R. (2020). Sleep, suicide behaviors, and the protective role of sleep medicine. Sleep Medicine, 66, 264–70.

Nielsen T., Carr M., Picard-Deland C., Marquis L. P., Saint-Onge K., Blanchette-Carriere C., et al. (2019). Early childhood adversity associations with nightmare severity and sleep spindles. Sleep Medicine, 56, 57–65.

Weber, F. C. & Wetter, T. C. (2021). The many faces of sleep disorders in post-traumatic stress disorder: An update on clinical features and treatment. Neuropsychobiology, published online Seot. 2. DOI: 10.1159/000517329

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Nightmare Relief from a Single Phone Session

A recent study showed that even one session of nightmare treatment can be enough to significantly reduce the frequency and distress of nightmares. Katharin Luth and two other German researchers studied this low-threshold intevention, stressing the need for easy access to treatment because so often, nightmares are both underdiagnosed and untreated.

In the study, 28 people were given a half-hour phone session that provided information on what causes nightmares, and then offered a short version of Imagery Rehearsal Therapy (IRT), which asks the dreamer to write down their nightmare, imagine a new ending or revised version and visualize this new version for 5-10 minutes a day.

After 8 weeks of self-practice, the participants were asked about the impact on their nightmares. Participants were either students or patients from a sleep laboratory, and there was no control group.  Follow-up calls determined that 64% of participants’ nightmare frequency was reduced, 29 percent were unchanged and 7 percent experienced an increase in nightmare frequency.

Results were very similar for nightmare distress, which was reduced significantly for 63% of participants and most (78%) reported little or no distress post treatment. Of the 28 participants, 17 decreased distress, 9 remained the same and 1 experienced an increase.

The researchers also asked participants about their subjective experience with the treatment, and found that 2 of the 28 thought the treatment itself was scary because the process began with imagining their nightmares. There were far more positive reports (19) and 3 found immediate relief, saying, “The dreams completely disappeared as if they were switched off.”

All but one person in the study found the process helpful or very helpful. Effect sizes (d=1.92) were very large, possibly because for every person in the study, this was the first time their nightmares were addressed by a professional. For some, the simple idea that nightmares could be treated was a revelation, and then, to have a tool that they could use on their own brought them a greater sense of safety.

The authors concluded, “Because of the simplicity and the effectiveness of this method, we stress the idea put forward by many dream researchers that such easily accessibly offers for nightmare treatment should be implemented in our health care system.”

Some further resources:

Help for nightmare sufferers (free PDF) CLICK HERE

If you are interested in learning more about nightmares and their treatment, sign up for my short, focused online course. Because I feel this material is important to disseminate, the course is always open, is self-paced, and currently discounted during the virus crisis. Please ask your clients if they have nightmares, and let them know they are treatable.Check out our Short Focused Course on Nightmare Treatment using THIS LINK.

Lüth, K., Schmitt, J. & Schredl, M. Conquering nightmares on the phone: one-session counseling using imagery rehearsal therapy. Somnologie (2021). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11818-021-00320-w

Are you a parent concerned about the frequency and intensity of your child’s bad dreams? Should you be concerned?
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Veterans and dreams: Special considerations for treating moral injury and lucid nightmares

Veterans and dreams: Special considerations for treating moral injury and lucid nightmares

By Dr. Leslie Ellis

Sometimes, traumatic injury is not just an overwhelming event, but one that constitutes a deep moral injury. This kind of trauma, more common among veterans, requires a uniquely sensitive approach. At the most recent conference for the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD, June 2021), keynote speaker Eduardo Duran, addressed the complexities of treating the moral injury many veterans suffer – where trauma is not just about what you have witnessed and experienced, but also about things you have done or failed to do in the context of battle, where the usual societal rules do not apply. Taking the life of another or failing to save someone’s life, for example, may lead to devastating moral injury.

 

An indigenous perspective on treating moral injury

Duran brings an indigenous perspective to the question of moral injury, and speaks of the importance of redressing balance. A moral injury refers to an act that weighs heavily on one’s conscience, characterized by profound guilt and shame. In his book, Healing the Soul Wound (2019), Duran writes of the indigenous teachings which say there is an agreement or contract made when one warrior takes the life of another. “Taking anything requires that a balancing act occur in order to harmonize the action. Everything in the universe seeks balance, and actions taken in any situation will either balance themselves unconsciously through the manifestation of symptoms, or will enhance human consciousness if understood from a psycho-spiritual perspective.”

At the IASD conference, Duran spoke of how in some indigenous tribes, taking the life of another indebted the warrior to the deceased soldier’s family for his lifetime. Often those who have taken a life dream of the deceased, both those whose lives they may have directly or indirectly taken, and they also dream of compatriots who lost their lives in battle. These dreams are a constant reminder that keeps their suffering alive, sometimes for decades, unless some kind of healing takes place. There is an understanding that while different rules apply during wartime, there is a need for balance and restitution upon returning to peace, and that these acts of atonement are as important for the agressor as they are for the victims of violence.

Practically speaking, this means that a soldier who has taken a life must make amends in some way to the person or the family and community whose life they have taken. This can be done through offerings, direct service, ceremony, therapy and ultimately, self-forgiveness. Duran said the pull toward suicide in such cases is may also be seen as an attempt to restore balance (a life for a life) but one that merely doubles down on losses. He calls suicide a desire for transformation, an important call, though not one to be taken literally.

In many indigenous traditions, suicide is a spirit that calls for transformation, which can lead to a spiritual rebirth, and a new life. Duran believes Western paradigms misinterpret this as suicidal ideation, as an impulse to take one’s own life in the physical realm. He said it’s crucial to not only treat PTSD symptoms, but also the deep moral injury that can lead to a desire for death. “A larger issue of soul separation is what is calling for a transforming event, such as we encounter in death. Therapeutic ceremony that allows for soul restoration is a must.”

 

Moral injury leads to higher suicide risk

A recent study (Battles et al., 2021) confirmed that suicide risk is higher among those veterans who have suffered a moral injury, which has symptoms in common with PTSD, but also a unique and complex presentation. The researchers found that those with strong guilt and shame, as well as comorbid psychiatric conditions, carried the highest suicide risk. The symptom picture differs from the flashbacks, nightmares and hypervigilance associated with PTSD. Moral injury and the shame associated with it bring depression, anxiety, loss of trust, and social alienation. The researchers concluded that while there is overlap between moral injury and PTSD, there are distinctive differences that need to be considered in treatment and prevention of suicide.

Another recent article addressing the impact of war on veterans found that the way they dream has unique characteristics. Miller, Ross and Harb (2021) studied the dreams of 54 veterans with PTSD and found that more than half of them were experiencing lucid nightmares of the most challenging variety. Participants were aware they were dreaming, but this did not lend them greater control over these distressing dreams. Instead, they reported feeling stuck, anxious and unable to wake themselves up from their distressing dreams.

Normally, lucid dreaming is associated with feelings of greater well-being, autonomy, assertiveness and confidence, but not in these cases. Although lucid dreaming has been studied as a treatment for traumatic nightmares, in these cases, the notion of taking control and achieving mastery over the dream content is not viewed as a promising pathway. The authors suggest that helping veterans who suffer from lucid nightmares to learn to distinguish these dreams from reality might be a useful focus of treatment.

In this and other recent studies, it is apparent that the treatment of veterans suffering from past-traumatic and/or moral injury is a complex business, and one that deserves further attention and study, especially because it may help reduce the high prevalence of suicide in this clinical population. It’s important for clinicians to understand that moral injury, and lucid nightmares are among the complex challenges in working with veterans, but they are treatable. There is hope.

If you are interested in learning more about nightmares and their treatment, sign up for my short, focused online course. Because I feel this material is important to disseminate, the course is always open, is self-paced, and currently discounted during the virus crisis. Please ask your clients if they have nightmares, and let them know they are treatable. Check out our Short Focused Course on Nightmare Treatment using THIS LINK.

 

References

Battles, A. R., Jinkerson, J., Kelley, M. L., & Mason, R. A. (2021). Structural examination of moral injury and PTSD and their associations with suicidal behavior among combat veterans. Journal of Community Engagement and Scholarship, 13(4).

Duran, E. (2019). Healing the soul wound: Trauma-informed counseling for indigenous communities. New York, NY: Teachers College Press, Columbia University.

Miller, K. E., Ross, R. J., & Harb, G. C. (2021). Lucid Dreams in Veterans with Posttraumatic Stress Disorder Include Nightmares. Dreaming, 31(2), 117-127.

Nightmare-Suicide Link Extends to Adolescents

Read on to find out how you can help!

If you know or work with a deeply troubled teen, you might consider asking them about their dreams. If they report frequent disturbing dreams or nightmares, they are at a greater risk for suicide. The link between adult suicide and nightmare frequency has been well established, and a new study extends this correlation to young adolescents. The good news is that nightmares are treatable, and some very simple steps can make a meaningful difference.

In a recent study based in Montreal, Canada, Aline Gauchat and colleagues studied both the dreams and suicidal ideation of 170 children when they were 12 and again at age 13. Disturbed dreaming tends to lessen with age and did so in this sample. At the same time, the rate of suicidal ideation increased, and analysis of the data showed that the adolsecents who had suicidal ideation had significantly more disturbing and recurring dreams.

This is another piece of mounting evidence that when working with those with a potential risk of suicide (for example those with depression, borderline personality or a history of complex trauma) you should ask about nightmares as part of the screening process.

 

Why we should ask about nightmares

Dr. Michael Nadorff, who has conducted several studies linking nightmares and suicide, noted with dismay that in the past 50 years, we have not become any better at predicting suicide. Paying attention to dreams, in particular the frequency of disturbing dreams and nightmares, is one way to help determine who is most at risk.

The other important thing to note with respect to the nightmare-suicide link is that effective nightmare treatments are available. In his talk on nightmares at the recent (June, 2021) conference for the International Association for the Study of Dreams, Nadorff noted that of those with dangerously troubling dreams, only one person in ten might report this to a mental health professional. There are a couple of reasons for this: those with frequent nightmares don’t always realize that such dreaming is not typical. And very few people are aware that nightmares can be treated. People also hesitate to talk about their nightmares for fear of being judged for the dark images that haunt their sleep.

However, talking about nightmares, and getting treatment can have positive effects that extend beyond the simple reduction in the frequency and distress caused by disturbing dreams. In general, symptoms of depression and trauma dissipate, and although this has not been specifically studied, it is fair to suggest the risk of suicide drops significantly as well.

Instilling Hope

When asked what he thought made nightmare sufferers more likely to consider taking their own life, Nadorff said he thinks a lack of hope is a major contributing factor. For frequent nightmare sufferers, even sleep is not a refuge from their tortured thoughts. Those contemplating suicide report deep loneliness and a sense that they are a burden to those closest to them. He suggests intensive support for those whose risk of suicude is high, stressing that the periods of high risk are time-limited.

Treating the nightmares of those contemplating suicide is also something Nadorff recommends, though this idea has not taken hold very widely, at least not yet. But Imagery Rehearsal Therapy (IRT), lucid dreaming, and several other nightmare treatment protocols demonstrate that it can be fairly quick and easy to reduce nightmares and their related distress. In my survey of the nightmare literature, I have found that virtually all methods researchers tried seemed to help, and adverse effects seemed absent.

The common denominators in nightmare treatment include instilling hope by teaching those with nightmares that they are treatable and it is entirely possible to change their dream life for the better. The other key elements of treatment are to write, rescript or re-imagine a new ending to their nightmare, ideally one that gives them a sense of mastery over the challenge presented in their dreams. They can, for example, develop a superpower that enables them to escape or overpower their attacker. In my experience, the more richly imagined this new dream ending is, the more power it has to change subsequent dreams. If it sounds too simple, don’t be fooled… it can really be that easy to make a meaningful difference, possibly even save a life.

 

Some further resources:

Help for nightmare sufferers (free PDF) CLICK HERE

A short focused course on nightmare treatment for clinicians CLICK HERE

Are you a parent concerned about the frequency and intensity of your child’s bad dreams? Should you be concerned?
Learn more about Nightmare Relief for Everyone designed by nightmare expert Dr. Leslie Ellis, this self-paced user-friendly and accessible online course covers the very latest in science and research about what nightmares are, and what they’re not. Leslie offers some simple steps you can take to get some relief from nightmares and other nocturnal disturbances – both for yourself and for others, including your children.

 

References

Gauchat, A., Zadra, A., El Hourani, M., Parent, S., Renaud, J., Tremblay, R. E., and Seguin, J. R. (2021). Association Between Recurrent Dreams, Disturbing Dreams, and Suicidal Ideation in Adolescents. Dreaming 31(1), 32-43.

Nadorff, M. (2021). Invited talk for the International Association for the Study of Dreams (IASD) Online Conference, June 13-17, 2021.

Can Your Apple Watch Stop Your Nightmares?

For more than 30 years, retired combat Marine veteran Tim Bahr would have his sleep interrupted by a dozen or so nightmares every night. He clearly recalls the morning of August 5, 2017 because that was the first time in decades that he woke up from a full night of sleep and could not recall a single nightmare. Bahr was testing an early version of NightWare and has become a strong advocate for this new nightmare treatment.

Nightware, is a ‘breakthrough’ system that uses an Apple watch and iPhone to help reduce nightmares and their related distress. As you begin to have a nightmare, a gentle vibration from the watch wakes the wearer just enough to change the dream state, allowing the person to sleep on more peacefully. Bahr said the sleep data shows he is still having nightmares but the device ‘breaks’ them before they get to the most intense places, so he is blissfully unaware of them. He also says this does not replace therapy but it does enable him to work through his PTSD with a well-rested body and a clear mind. “I now wake up without that fog.”

Granted FDA approval in November 2020, Nightware is now available on a limited basis by prescription to those who suffer from nightmare disorder or nightmares related to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). This is new order of nightmare treatment was granted ‘breakthrough device’ designation that allowed it to fast-track through the FDA approval process.

Recurrent, realistic nightmares that replicate traumatic events are a cardinal feature of PTSD. They cause considerable distress and impair sleep, and for many, these distressing dreams do not simply go away with time. There have been several effective nightmare treatments developed that involve some variant of nightmare rescripting – in which the dreamer invents and rehearses a new ending to their nightmare. Imagery Rehearsal Therapy (IRT) has the most supportive evidence, and many other, similar psychotherapy-based interventions have been developed over the past 20 years. Medications are often prescribed as well, most often Prasozin, but it was recently downgraded because in a recent study, it did not perform better than placebo. However, NightWare is a new and different kind of treatment that can augment other ways of helping reduce nightmare suffering.

The beauty of Nightware is that this wearable device poses minimal risk and has no side effects. When we have a nightmare, our body reacts as though the terrifying event is really happening – so our heart rate increases, our breath becomes rapid, and we can tend to thrash around a lot more. The Apple watch can detect heart rate and movement. Over the first week or so of wearing the device, the patented Nightware software creates a personalized sleep profile to enable it to detect when a person is likely to be having a nightmare. It will then send a signal to create a gentle vibration in the watch, enough to cause a shift in the dream state, but not enough to wake the wearer up… or if the signal is too strong and does wake the wearer, the watch will adjust the signal and make it softer.

NightWare was tested in 30-day clinical trial with 70 patients who were randomly assigned with the working app, or a placebo app that did not create vibrations. Both groups reported improved sleep quality, but those with the Nightware app reported greater benefit. A larger controlled clinical trial is under way in several Department of Veterans Affairs hospital sites. According to NightWare CEO Grady Hannah, the company was founded specifically to support the physical, mental and emotional health of veterans and active duty service members.

There are some caveats. The FDA suggests that Nightware should be used in conjunction with other treatments and under the supervision of a professional. And it’s not recommended for those who tend to sleepwalk, or become violent or act out their dreams because the device may increase this undesirable activity (called REM Behaviour Disorder). It also recommended only for those 22 years of age or older. Nightware is available by prescription only, and is currently limited to veteran and military individuals. To find out more about it, you can do go the company web site at nightware.com.

 

Dr. Leslie Ellis is an author, researcher and therapist who specializes in PTSD nightmare treatment. If you are interested in learning more about nightmares and their treatment, check out my Short Focused Course on Nightmare Treatment. Or go HERE for a free PDF for clients on ‘What You Can Do About Your Nightmares.’

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Sleep deprived? You may be getting more sleep than you think!

We’ve all experienced nights like this: where we toss and turn and worry and plan, and when morning comes, it feels as if we have barely slept at all. The truth is you may actually be getting a lot more sleep than you realize. New research suggests there can be a big difference between your real and perceived duration and quality of sleep. A group of Swiss researchers recently found that when we are in our deepest sleep, we tend to perceive the opposite.

In the recent experiment at the Center for Investigation and Research on Sleep and University Hospital in Switzerland, researchers recruited 20 good sleepers and 10 with severe sleep misperception (also called paradoxical insomnia). In the sleep lab, they woke the participants up a collective total 787 times, at different sleep stages, to inquire about their perception of the quality of their sleep. Sleep stages were measured by high-density EEG. Our brain waves clearly show when we are in the deepest non-rapid eye movement (MREM) or ‘slow-wave’ sleep, and when we enter lighter, dream-rich REM sleep, or any of the stages in between.

One of the biggest surprises in this research by Stephan, Castaldi and Sicari (2021) is that we tend to perceive the opposite of what is true. They said, “Surprisingly, in good sleepers, sleep was subjectively lightest in the first two hours of NREM sleep, generally considered the ‘deepest’ sleep, and deepest in rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. Both the good sleepers and the sleep misperceptors felt they were sleeping deeply when they reported “dream-like features of conscious experiences… These findings challenge the widely held notion that ‘deep’ (slow wave) sleep best accounts for feeling soundly asleep.”

Anecdotally, this observation is supported by sleep medicine practitioners. At a sleep conference, I recall listening to a sleep doctor talk about a particular patient who checked into the clinic because he suffered from terrible insomnia. They set him up in the sleep lab, connected him to the EEG equipment to record his sleep duration and quality. In the morning, the lab staff were able to report to him that he had a full 8 hours of normal, restful sleep. The speaker said he happened to overhear a phone conversation the man had with his wife that morning. The man said, come get me, the doctors here don’t know what they’re talking about. In his perception, he had once again barely slept at all.

In the Swiss study, researchers wanted to know if this kind of sleep misperception was similar in nature (though clearly not in degree) to that of good sleepers. They found that both groups perceived they were awake more often during the first two hours of sleep, when we drop into our deepest sleep of the night, and again in the last hour before waking. Predictably, the misperceptors felt awake more often than good sleepers. The researchers also found that the ‘wake-like’ neurophysiological processes that typify NREM infiltrated REM more often for paradoxical insomniacs, possibly accounting for their misperceptions.

In terms of sleep perception, the only difference between the two groups was that misperceptors reported more thought-like experiences than good sleepers. Overall, the more dream-like experiences perceived, the greater the sense of having experienced a good sleep. This gives a clue about how you might treat paradoxical insomnia, and insomnia in general – stop thinking so much about whether or not you are sleeping, or worrying about how well you are sleeping. Instead, allow your mind to wander and to dream. Get a sleep meditation app like Insight Timer and find your favorite voice to fall asleep to. I notice when I listen to the same yoga nidra recording over and over, I lose big chunks of it to sleep, something I would not even realize if I didn’t know the sequence so well.

It may also really help to change your expectations about what sleep should be like, especially as you age. A continuous sleep, in which you lay your head down at night and are conscious of nothing until you wake up in the morning, can indeed be a rare event for many people – for example women experiencing menopause, and the elderly. Those who adapt best to this learn to accept periods of wakefulness as part of the norm. It may help to know that in these periods we perceive as wakeful, we may in fact be getting a lot more sleep than we think.

 

Embodied Experiential Dreamwork Certification Program

Experiential Dreamwork Certification Program

Join us for an amazing journey that will bring about insight and growth, both personally and professionally.

Now taking applications for FALL cohort 2022. Reserve your spot now!

This program is a deep dive into the world of dreams, and a clear path to learning how to engage yourself and guide others in embodied experiential dreamwork practices. Upon completion of this program, you will be able to confidently engage with your own dreams and the dreams of others, both one-on-one and in groups. And you will be able to help those who suffer from trauma-related nightmares to not only reduce nightmare frequency and distress, but also PTSD symptoms. This course is a companion to Dr. Leslie Ellis’ recent book, A Clinician’s Guide to Dream Therapy but goes beyond the material in the book to include personal and group dreamwork, and co-creative dreamwork.

TIMING OF ONLINE LIVE CLASSES:

There will be 10 2.5-hour live group Q/A and dreamwork practice/demo sessions.
Time: 9:30 AM to NOON PACIFIC on the third Wednesday of each month, starting in September. Sessions will be recorded and available to view at any time, but in-class attendance is strongly encouraged.

Instructor: Dr. Leslie Ellis

Dr. Ellis is a world expert in the clinical use of dreams, with a specialty in working with PTSD nightmares. She has a PhD in Clinical Psychology from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology and a Masters in Counselling Psychology from Pacifica Graduate Institute. She is vice president of The International Focusing Institute and has more than 20 years’ experience in clinical practice. She has taught a focusing certification program to therapists for more than 10 years, and is now offering online instruction in dreamwork to therapists and anyone interested in cultivating inner life through dreamwork, focusing and active imagination. She is the author of A Clinician’s Guide to Dream Therapy (Routledge, 2019), as well as numerous papers and book chapters on focusing and embodied, experiential dreamwork. She has also taught and delivered talks worldwide, including a recent keynote for the International Association for the Study of Dreams.

Who should attend?

This course is aimed at mental health professionals and students working toward psychotherapy, counselling, social work or coaching certification, as well as those with a strong interest in dreams and dreamwork. It is also of interest to spiritual directors and those intending to lead dream groups. This program is intended as an adjunct to the practice you already have, and it is up to each student to practice dreamwork within the scope of your own skills and training base. It is also not a substitute for therapy, although working with dreams is often therapeutic. If you have any questions about whether this program is for you, feel free to ask.

CEUs. A total of 50 CE credits are offered for this program from the Canadian Counselling Association.

 

Online Instruction includes the following courses:

Working with your OWN dreams

Dreamwork Demystified, the clinical use of dreams, parts 1 and 2

Working with Nightmares

 

Interactive instruction and practice

Monthly dream group meeting

Live demos and Q/A sessions

Practice partnership to exchange dream sessions

Online discussions, and bonus articles, videos and demos on topics of interest to the group

 

Assignments

Dream journal (for yourself)

Records of dream practice session, and questions and insights that arise

Option to present a case study, video, paper, artwork on an aspect of working with dreams

 

Reading

Ellis, Leslie. (2019) A Clinician’s Guide to Dream Therapy: Implementing Simple and Effective Dreamwork. New York & London: Routledge.

Gendlin, E. T. (1986). Let Your Body Interpret Your Dreams. Wilmette, IL: Chiron Publications.

Gendlin, E. T. (1978/1981). Focusing. New York, NY: Bantam Books

 

Suggested Reading

Bosnak, R. (1998). A little course in dreams. Boston & London: Shambala.

Malinowski, J. (2021). The psychology of dreaming, London & New York: Routledge.

Bulkeley, K. (2017). An Introduction to the Psychology of Dreaming. Santa Barbara, CA: Praeger.

Specific additional reading will be assigned or suggested as the course progresses.

 

PRICING

To purchase the individual components of this program would cost more than $2500 USD. We are offering the complete program for $1750 USD or $2100 Cdn. There is an option to pay monthly, in instalments of $175 USD or $210 CAD (includes GST). A deposit of $175USD or $210 CDN is required to secure your spot – this is not included in the total or monthly fee and is non-refundable. Please send deposit and registration info (see below) to leslie@drleslieellis.com via paypal or e-transfer.

Contact information: Dr. Leslie Ellis, email leslie@drleslieellis.com.  Web: www.drleslieellis.com

 

What current students of the course are saying:

  • “Personally and professionally helpful” 
  • Leslie is incredibly knowledgeable and always has lots to offer. I have found this course to be greatly helpful to me, both personally and professionally. This course is equipping me with the tools to work with a wide variety of clients on a much deeper level. Moreover, I have found it to be personally helpful as it has provided me with a platform to further engage with myself.
  • “Captivated my curiosity” It is with immense pleasure that I share with you my experience of this Experiential Dreamwork Certification Program that has captivated my curiosity and attention each and every day. I have been working with my dreams for over 30 years and have recorded 30 dream journals; however, this course has moved me so much farther in understanding my dream life that is so precious to me.
  • “Multi-layered and integrative” This program is multi-layered and I am learning so many new skills. I have been in this course approximately 3 months and have already learned so much, including: how to work with nightmares; how to work with my dreams on my own; how to participate in dream groups;  how to find the life force found in my dreams;  how to work with lucid dreams; and how to discover my blind spots when sharing my dreams. Most of all, I have gained skill in integrating Focusing while processing my dreams so that I can experience my dream more fully, embody useful elements of the dream and move the dream and myself forward.
  • “Skilled and knowledgeable facilitation” Dr. Ellis is a very skilled facilitator and psychotherapist and is exceptionally knowledgeable about the vastness of dream work.  She has written a cutting-edge dream book, A Clinician’s Guide to Dream Therapy: Implementing Simple and Effective Dreamwork that complements her online course, virtual classroom and group dream work.  I feel very fortunate to be studying with her.
  • “Fresh and fascinating” For me, this course is a fresh approach to the dream world. Beyond attempts for analysis and interpretation, it offers the opportunity to re-live our dreams and to receive all the gifts they bring.  For me, it was surprising to learn that nightmares can also carry helpful elements and how there are ways to find them and listen to them. Throughout this journey, Leslie is a very warm and supportive teacher and the educational process of the course enables us to quickly bond as a team. I believe it is a fascinating experience for every dreamer.
  • “From having nightmares to loving dreams again” 
    As a mental health professional, I’ve found the techniques I learned in this course to be incredibly effective in reducing my client’s nightmare frequency and severity. But it’s not only for clinicians. Anyone can take it and help themselves have a better dream life, and better connection with their dreams. I’ve come to see how much dreams can bring help and resolution to a bunch of different aspects of one’s life. So that’s something I’ve really taken away. I just like loving dreams again.The course came at a time where I was having really, really frequent nightmares that were just terrifying. And they were happening maybe every 10 days. After our one-on-one session, it just went away and never had it again. That was that was really, really helpful. I couldn’t find a solution before that.
  • “An Amazing Journey.” It’s been an amazing journey. I’ve always been passionate about dreams and with this approach I definitely feel a shift in how I work with dreams. There is such power for healing when we really attune to bodily sensations, when enter dreams in an experiential way. I find it very, very powerful. The finding of the helpful life force in the dream is a new technique for me and it’s really amazing. I find it that dreaming a dream forward gives that quality of more. My clients are really happy with the process as well. I can see it helping them move forward in their lives.
  • “Excellent.” 
    This dream course was excellent and if I could, I would do it all over again. I learned far more than I could ever articulate, and I now have a focusing-oriented template for supporting my clients with their dreams.

‘Embodied Experiential Dreamwork Program ‘made me a better clinician’

I recently had a conversation with one of the recent graduates my year-long dreamwork program – looking for feedback and ways to talk about the program to prospective students. If you are considering the program, Shauna’s experience may help you decide if this is a fit for you.

Read full conversation HERE.

 

To reserve your spot: A completed registration form and deposit of $175 USD  or $210 CAD (includes GST) is required (PayPal or e-transfer to leslie@drleslieellis.com). Deposit is nonrefundable. Once the program has started, refunds will be prorated and will not include the current month.

Registration form: Please email the following information to leslie@drleslieellis.com

1. Name, email address, mailing address.

2. Education and training

3. A very brief statement about your experience with dreamwork (none required) and your reasons for taking this course.

4. Your preferred payment method: $175USD deposit, and monthly instalments ($175USD x 11 months), or save $175 with payment in full ($1750 USD plus deposit).

Other currencies. Canadians are welcome to pay in Cdn funds: $210 deposit, and monthly x 11, or in full at $2100, plus deposit. For those in countries with large currency differentials, further discounts are available.

FAQs

What if I don’t recall any dreams — can I still benefit from the program and learn to work with dreams?

The short answer is yes, you can do dreamwork even if you don’t recall dreams. But you will likely find that you recall more dreams as you pay more attention to them. I have written a blog post with some ideas about how to recall dreams. And I also teach some ways to cultivate waking dreams, and these can be used for practice in the course in the same way you would work with night dreams. This also works for clients who don’t recall dreams.

Is the class time-intensive? How much time outside of class is required?

At minimum, you need to attend the monthly 2-hour class, or watch the recording if you are not able to attend in person — though it is highly encouraged to attend in person as often as possible. Outside of class time, you will have a dreamwork partner and are encouraged to work with each other’s dreams at least once a month. There are a couple of short books that are required reading. And there are several online courses you can consume at your leisure.

I have a suggested time-line of reading and coursework, but because my students are all adult learners and busy professionals, I want everyone to consume the material at their own pace, and to enjoy the process. Of course, the more time you put in, the more you will get from the course material, but I leave that up to each individual.

Are there scholarships available?

I do offer a discount in specific cases — mainly for those who reside in countries where the currency differential would render the tuition out of reach. There are a limited number of discounted spaces, and candidates will be considered in a case by case basis.

Is the course eligible for CEUs?

The course has been approved for 50 CE credits by the Canadian Counselling Association. These may not apply in your jurisdiction however.

Can I take this course if I am not a mental health professional who works with clients?

While this course is aimed at those who want to use dreamwork in clinical practice, it is open to all with a strong interest in working with dreams — their own, or the dreams of others. It may appeal to spiritual directors, coaches and anyone with a deep interest in exploring the fascination world of dreams.

Besides the group meeting each month will we (the students) have an ongoing dream group that meets more regularly?

The monthly meeting will be a 2.5 hour session that will typically begin with a brief Q/A. Then we will talk about a specific dream practice, topic or theory, I will demonstrate the dreamwork method with a class member or two, and then break you into smaller groups to try it out. Then we debrief the experience. There may be sessions where we stay together as a large group to learn and experience dream group process.

In addition, I will create a dreamwork exercise based on each month’s learnings for you to try with your small group — you will be assigned to a dyad or triad to meet over the year between classes to practice what we are learning together. There will also be an option for the small groups, or the whole group to continue meeting after the year is over.

Will there be assignments to support the certification?

There is one assignment to present on any aspect of dreamwork that intrigues you, and the format for this is very open. Most students have offered a short presentation (10-15 minutes) or led a class exercise/discussion. You can also write, film or record what you want to share. But these are not formally assessed. if you attend classes, engage in the dreamwork practices assigned, do the reading and courses that are part of the program, you will qualify for certification. If you would like to record a dreamwork session for feedback and a more formal assessment, that is an option.

Would this course be recognised by the IASD in its guidelines for ethical dreamwork certification?

Yes, this course will be recognized by the IASD as it follows the ethical dreamwork certification guidelines closely.

Is this course a stand alone course or are there other levels of qualification?

This course is a stand-alone course. There is a related course offering on how to understand and treat nightmares that I would recommend for all of those doing clinical dreamwork. And graduates can continue is a quarterly dream circle for those who have completed the program. If there is enough interest, ad advanced dreamwork certificate may be offered in the future.

If you have any questions that are not answered here, let me know.  THANK YOU!

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