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Become An Exquisite Listening Partner with Focusing

Are you interested in deepening your ability to listen in a way that enables another person to touch into their body’s wisdom? Whether you are a mental health professional, partner, coach, parent, friend (or all of these!), focusing is a gift you can bring to every relationship – including your connection with your own self.

In this live, 8-week course, you will learn and practice focusing with master teacher Dr. Leslie Ellis. Join before Sept. 15 for a significant discount for the Proficiency in Focusing Partnership award program (aka How to Become an Exquisite Listener).

For those not familiar with Focusing, it is an amazing method for discovering what the body knows about your life and world.  It’s a profound yet gentle way of getting a sense of yourself from the inside.

Focusing is not designed to do alone – it is inherently a relational listening process – and in this course you will not only learn focusing, but also how to listen in a focusing-oriented way. That is, you will learn to attune in a way that naturally deepens your listening partner’s relationship with their inner world.

In my first course for the Jung Platform, I offered the basics of focusing as a way of Accessing the Body’s Wisdom, mainly as a form of self-inquiry. This course takes you a step further so you can both listen to your own embodied wisdom and guide a partner in this process.

Focusing founder Eugene Gendlin said that the intangible magic of human connection is what makes focusing so effective at moving us toward new understandings. When we, as a listener, absorb and reflect back what the focuser is saying, our receptive presence adds more to the equation. This is felt by the person focusing, and allows them to say something further, to take a step they may not have arrived at on their own. There is a beautiful rhythm that is created, a conversation that is greater than the sum of its parts.

In this live course, we will meet for eight experiential sessions. In each, I will teach you an aspect of focusing, and will demonstrate it. Then you will have the chance to practice in small groups, one skill at a time.

You will learn how to deepen your listening partner’s experience of their own depths, but in a way that is safe and guided by the focuser. I will offer suggestions to help keep the process moving, but also manageable. For example, in one session, we will work with the inner critic, that derogatory voice that often pipes up when we first turn our attention inside.

We will also have fun with creative aspects of focusing, and there will be lots of time for debriefing your practice and for your questions, reflections and sharing of the magical moments that often arise in focusing.

Prior courses or experience are not required, although I do recommend that you read Gendlin’s little book Focusing as an introduction.

For those who want to, you can use this course as a stepping stone toward a deeper practice of focusing. When you complete the course and practice sessions, you will be eligible to apply to the International Focusing Institute for the Proficiency in Focusing Partnership Award. This award demonstrates your ability to listen in a focusing way, and enables you to connect with other focusing partners from around the world.

The PFP award is optional. And regardless of whether you choose to pursue it, you will leave this course with a deeper connection to your own body’s wisdom, and a reliable way to access it. And you will have the ability to guide others in this process so you can continue focusing as a practice well beyond the duration of the course.

Focusing pairs well with dreamwork, can help you as a therapist, coach or teacher to help your client or students find their own answers. It can be used to deepen creativity and connection.

The course is available at an early bird price of $295 until Sept. 15. Regular price is $345. Classes are 8 Tuesdays starting Oct. 8, 10:30am to 12:45. (90 minutes of class time, plus 45-minute focusing practice sessions).

For full details and to register, click here.

Are Nightmares Bad for Your Heart?

John’s nightmares visit often, and when they wake him up, he can feel his heart racing and his palms sweating. He has been putting off therapy to address the trauma he knows is fueling his nightmares because it’s just so hard face it. What he doesn’t realize is that this avoidance not only disrupts his peace of mind, but also puts him at higher risk for a heart attack or stroke.

It’s well-known that nightmares can disrupt sleep and affect daytime mood, and that they are associated with a wide range of mental health diagnoses, including post-traumatic stress and increased risk of suicide. What is more recently becoming clear is that nightmares are bad for physical health as well — specifically an increased risk of cardiovascular disease. While I have long been advocating for increased awareness and treatment of nightmares, heart health is yet another reason to pay attention to nightmares. This post summarizes some of the key findings on the intricate relationship between cardiovascular health and nightmares from the past five years.

Nightmares and Increased Cardiovascular Risk

Several studies have shown that frequent nightmares are associated with an increased risk of cardiovascular problems. For instance Nadorff and colleagues (2020) found that those who experience persistent nightmares have a higher likelihood of developing cardiovascular disease. This study involved a large cohort of over 3,000 participants and utilized self-reported questionnaires to assess the frequency and intensity of nightmares, as well as the incidence of cardiovascular events. The key finding was that those with frequent nightmares had a significantly higher risk of experiencing cardiovascular events, such as heart attacks and strokes. The study suggests that the stress and anxiety associated with nightmares can lead to increased sympathetic nervous system activity, which, in turn, negatively affects heart health.

Heart Rate Variability (HRV) and Nightmares

HRV, a measure of autonomic nervous system function and cardiac health, has been a focal point in understanding the link between nightmares and cardiovascular health. A study by de Zambotti et al. (2021) included 200 participants and indicated that lower HRV is often observed in individuals with frequent nightmares. Participants underwent polysomnographic sleep studies along with HRV monitoring. The researchers found that decreased HRV, reflecting reduced parasympathetic activity and increased sympathetic dominance, is associated with poor sleep quality and higher nightmare frequency. This imbalance in autonomic function is a potential pathway through which nightmares contribute to cardiac stress and disease.

Nightmares, Sleep Apnea, and Cardiac Stress

Sleep apnea, a condition often co-occurring with nightmares, has also been linked to increased cardiac stress. A study by Basta et al. (2021) involved 150 patients diagnosed with obstructive sleep apnea (OSA) and examined the presence of frequent nightmares. The research utilized polysomnography to monitor sleep and assessed cardiac stress markers such as blood pressure and heart rate. The study showed that patients with both OSA and frequent nightmares exhibited significantly higher levels of cardiac stress markers compared to those without nightmares. The researchers suggest that the intermittent hypoxia and fragmented sleep characteristic of OSA, compounded by the psychological stress of nightmares, can exacerbate cardiovascular strain.

Psychological Stress, Nightmares, and Heart Health

Psychological factors play a crucial role in the relationship between nightmares and heart health. An analysis by Li et al. (2022) reviewed the interplay between psychological stress, nightmare frequency, and cardiovascular outcomes. This review included data from multiple studies, covering a combined participant pool of over 5,000 individuals. The review concluded that the chronic stress response induced by frequent nightmares can lead to hypertension and other cardiovascular issues. The persistent arousal and anxiety from nightmares activate the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis, leading to prolonged cardiovascular strain. These findings were derived from a meta-analysis that consolidated results from various studies, providing a robust understanding of the link between psychological stress from nightmares and cardiovascular health.

Prospective Studies and Longitudinal Data

Longitudinal studies have provided further evidence of the impact of nightmares on long-term cardiac health. A notable study by Ohayon et al. (2021) followed a cohort of 4,500 individuals over ten years. Participants were regularly assessed for nightmare frequency, sleep quality, and cardiovascular health through clinical examinations and self-reported surveys. The study found that those with chronic nightmares had a significantly higher incidence of cardiac events, including heart attacks and strokes, compared to those without frequent nightmares. This study emphasizes the potential long-term cardiovascular risks associated with untreated sleep disturbances like nightmares.

Taken together, these recent studies underscore a significant link between nightmares and cardiac health, strongly supporting the notion that frequent nightmares can be a risk factor for heart disease. This relationship is mediated by mechanisms that include increased sympathetic nervous system activity, reduced HRV, and heightened psychological stress. Beyond the well-understood need to reduce stress to promote heart health, directly addressing nightmares using established dream therapy methods has the potential to mitigate some of these risks.

References

Basta, M., Lin, H. M., Peppard, P. E., & Young, T. (2021). Cardiovascular disease prevalence in patients with obstructive sleep apnea and frequent nightmares. Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine, 17(1), 17-23. https://doi.org/10.5664/jcsm.8616

de Zambotti, M., Goldstone, A., Colrain, I. M., & Baker, F. C. (2021). Cardiac autonomic regulation during sleep and the relation with nightmares in women with PTSD. Psychosomatic Medicine, 83(3), 299-306. https://doi.org/10.1097/PSY.0000000000000895

Li, S. X., Lam, S. P., Yu, M. W., & Wing, Y. K. (2022). Nightmares and cardiovascular health: A review of recent evidence. Sleep Medicine Reviews, 58, 101453. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.smrv.2021.101453

Nadorff, M. R., Liu, X., & Germain, A. (2020). Nightmares and cardiovascular health: A longitudinal study. Sleep, 43(5), zsz247. https://doi.org/10.1093/sleep/zsz247

Ohayon, M. M., Carskadon, M. A., Guilleminault, C., & Vitiello, M. V. (2021). Meta-analysis of quantitative sleep parameters from childhood to old age in healthy individuals: Developing normative sleep values across the human lifespan. Sleep, 44(5), zsab012. https://doi.org/10.1093/sleep/zsab012

The Alarming Nightmare-Suicide Link: Review just published

In my continuing bid to get the word out about the alarming link between frequent nightmares and increased suicide risk, I wrote a review paper that was just published. In it, I cover the growing body of research documenting evidence of this strong connection. I also explore the potential mechanisms at work that make nightmare sufferers more prone to suicide, and discuss treatment and the need for more research.

Recently, I’ve had conversations with several psychotherapists who came across my writings on this topic. I have been consulting with some of them about clients who fit the typical profile of concern: a person suffering from posttraumatic stress who has nightmares almost every night, and has attempted suicide, or is in danger of doing so.

Much of my work involves keeping abreast of nightmare research, developing and honing a treatment protocol based on current evidence and my depth of clinical experience. I also share this information via my writing and courses, including an online course specifically covering nightmares and suicide, and what clinicians need to be aware of.

Here is the abstract and citation for the paper. Please share it with anyone who might benefit from knowing about this.

The Alarming Nightmare-Suicide Link: Evidence, Theories, and Implications for Treatment

A robust link has been established between frequent nightmares and increased risk of suicide, both in adult and adolescent populations. Yet nightmares remain vastly undertreated for a confluence of reasons: patients rarely talk about their nightmares, clinicians rarely ask about them, and too few clinicians are trained to treat disturbing dreams. Current clinical research shows that nightmares are not only associated with posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), but also are more prevalent in most psychiatric disorders. There are myriad reasons for clinicians to inquire about and treat nightmares: Patterns of disturbed dreaming, and content of nightmares can provide warning signs of suicide; dream content can aid in diagnosis, treatment, and assessment of response to treatment; and there are established, evidence-based treatments for nightmares that appear to reduce nightmare frequency and distress, as well as other symptoms of post-traumatic stress. Mechanisms of action remain unclear, and the range of treatment options could be expanded, so further research is needed. In the meantime, viable nightmare screening and treatment options currently exist that have the potential to mitigate suicide risk. This review summarizes the extant body of research in this clinical area.

Ellis, L. (2024). The Alarming Nightmare-Suicide Link: Evidence, Theories, and Implications for Treatment. SIS Journal of Projective Psychology & Mental Health31(2).

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Dreams and Psychedelics: Similarities and potential therapeutic benefits

Research into the therapeutic potential of psychedelic (serotonergic) substances is experiencing a resurgence after lying dormant in North America for more than 50 years. Early research suggests these once-vilified substances show great promise in treating depression, anxiety, alcohol addiction, and potentially many other challenging conditions. This emerging area is ripe for the use of dreamwork techniques to help with the integration of psychedelic visionary experiences that have much in common with dreams.

Psychedelic visions and dreams: Vehicles for attenuating fear memories

From a neurobiological perspective, dreams and psychedelic visions (PVs) share similar forms of perception, mental imagery, fear memory extinction, emotional activation and distorted senses of self and body. This is according to a comprehensive review of the literature on the neurophenomenology of both dreams and psychedelic experiences (Kraehenmann, 2017). A major difference the author noted is that there is greater clarity of consciousness and meta-cognition in PVs, suggesting these experiences are closer to lucid dreaming (the ability to become aware of the dream state while still in it).

One of the areas of overlap that has significant therapeutic potential is the attenuation of fear memories. During dreaming, the brain’s limbic emotion processing network is more active than in wakefulness; in dreams, fear memories are often revisited, but broken into more isolated units, and associated with novel contexts. These are also the steps that lead to fear memory extinction, with a final step being emotional expression of the new experience, which consolidates the updated version. Even better, Kraehenmann states that “Dreaming might also directly rewrite fear memories via memory reconsolidation.” This process involves activation of an emotional memory, followed by a new, less fearful experiencing of it within the ‘reconsolidation window’ which permanently updates old fear memories.

In my decades of work as a trauma therapist, I have found that dreams provide excellent fodder for further therapeutic effects when reactivated while awake. In those who suffer from frequent nightmares, the dreams are remain fear-laden over time because the memory reconsolidation process is often interrupted as the emotion is so strong it wakes the dreamer up mid-process. But in a dream therapy session, the fear memory can be opened up again via dream re-experiencing. Then, in a supportive environment where fear is significantly reduced, the dream story can be metabolized and rewritten, permanently updating the original fear memory. When I have worked with nightmares in this way, the most common reported effect the removal of the emotional charge from the dream/memory. The memory is still accessible, but no longer activates a fear response, and this changes the dream itself.

The same kinds of mechanisms may be at work in psychedelic journeys – the activation and recombination of fear memories in a way that has the potential to remove the element of fear from the experience. As with experiential therapy for dreams, a similar process can be used for PVs to integrate the visions and hallucinations that have arisen, and to help reduce the emotional charge from the experience if there is residual fear present.

Optimism and Caution

Although psychedelic substances are still illegal in most countries (as was the case with cannabis before widespread legalization), there is an underground community already using these substances for therapeutic benefit. Legal permission is being granted for use in research in limited, but rapidly-expanding ways as early results show both promise and acceptable safety.

There is a dark side, however, to this mostly good news story. Recent studies are mainly small and many of them not well-designed. Within the community already using psychedelics, often in group therapy sessions, there are varying degrees of safety and levels of appropriate supervision. From those pioneering psychedelic journeyers, we mainly hear about the successes, and less about the frightening and disorienting experiences that can also result.

What the community of psychedelic pathfinders are discovering is that preparation, setting and post-treatment integration are key elements of success. Best practices, although still a work in progress, are emerging.  A scoping review by Golden and colleagues (2022) found that the main aspects of setting that can positively impact the experience include music/sound, religious or ritual contexts, group versus individual sessions, socio-cultural norms/expectations, and physical environment. Unfortunately, researchers found the existing data is too patchy, sparse or observational to establish evidence-based practices. Adding to the complexity, responses vary across individuals.

Despite the lack of empirical evidence about the factors that lead to success, early research into use of psychedelics for specific clinical conditions is quite promising. A recent meta-analysis of current research shows that psychedelics (psilocybin, LSD, ayahuasca) can be a part of safe, effective treatment protocol for depression, even in treatment-resistant, life-threatening cases (Ko et al., 2023). Another systematic review of 16 studies conducted between 2000 and 2020 showed that psychedelic substances were safe and effective for depression, anxiety, OCD, and tobacco and alcohol use disorders. They noted that the effects appeared to last weeks or even months after just 1-3 sessions, with no severe adverse effects reported (Andersen et al., 2021).

As someone who works with dream material and teaches therapists how to help clients navigate these rich imaginative realms, I believe these same methods can help with the integration of the dream-like aspects of psychedelic journeys. This feels like a rich potential extension of methods developed for experiential dream therapy and in particular, a way to continue the process of taking the charge out of frightening memories and images.

 

Andersen, K. A., Carhart‐Harris, R., Nutt, D. J., & Erritzoe, D. (2021). Therapeutic effects of classic serotonergic psychedelics: A systematic review of modern‐era clinical studies. Acta Psychiatrica Scandinavica143(2), 101-118.

Golden, T. L., Magsamen, S., Sandu, C. C., Lin, S., Roebuck, G. M., Shi, K. M., & Barrett, F. S. (2022). Effects of setting on psychedelic experiences, therapies, and outcomes: A rapid scoping review of the literature. Disruptive Psychopharmacology, 35-70.

Ko, K., Kopra, E. I., Cleare, A. J., & Rucker, J. J. (2023). Psychedelic therapy for depressive symptoms: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Journal of Affective Disorders322, 194-204.

Kraehenmann, R. (2017). Dreams and psychedelics: neurophenomenological comparison and therapeutic implications. Current neuropharmacology15(7), 1032-1042.

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Can AI Interpret Your Dreams?

With AI flooding the world with all kinds of applications, of course there are now several AI apps on the market for recording and interpreting dreams – my current favorites are Elsewhere and Temenos. Some of the questions that immediately arise: Does AI do a good job with helping us explore our dreams? What are the pros and cons of using this technology as a way to engage in our dreaming lives?

John Temple, the creator of Temenos, a dream tracking and interpretation app, says the technology is useful, but has limits. He spoke at length on this on the June 20 podcast episode of This Jungian Life (well worth a listen). He said that in the process of testing this program, he sent numerous dreams to be interpreted and found it exhausting. “Your psyche recognizes that it’s not another human soul responding.” He suggests Temenos as a useful tool, but not to overdo it. His sense is that what’s healing in the process of dreamwork is the human connection, something AI can’t replace.

That said, an app can offer interesting suggestions you may not have thought of. If you treat its analysis as coming from one of many members of a dream group, as a reflection to consider and take or leave, it can carry your understanding of the dream forward, sometimes in creatively helpful ways. Temple notes that in dreams, our blind spots are often so evident to others and, by definition, invisible to us. Other voices, including the possible interpretations via an app, enlarge our perspective and may enable us to see the very aspects that we’re missing.

Interpretation aside, dream apps can also be used as a way to record dreams easily and store them all in a single, searchable database – much more efficient than searching through stacks of old dream journals. For example, using the Temenos app, you can speak your dream into your phone and it will transcribe it and store it, and it prompts you to add notes about emotional tone and associations, even generates an image of the dream. Over time, you have a long-term, detailed, searchable record of your dream life, and with this, different questions you can explore – like how a dream element or symbol appears and evolves over time. A premium (ie paid) version of the app lets you join a dream community to share dreams with small groups, or the whole community.

Another great dream AI app is Elsewhere, which offers most of the same functions as Temenos (although its community functions are still under development). I tested it out with a dream I had of an Irish Setter that turns into a fox, a slightly wild and unkempt little creature that is ambivalent about being held by me. The app takes care to offer its interpretation as something to consider, not as gospel, beginning its response with: “If it were my dream, I would interpret is as follows…” It then describes the fox as a “cunning, adaptable, and resourceful” aspect of myself that is perhaps undernourished.

This feels both plausible and a little too reliant on generic meaning. It doesn’t resonate. But a later phrase does seem worth pondering, a suggestion that the dream “could be a reflection of your own desire to balance your wild and free-spirited nature with the need for stability and nurturing.” This feels a little closer to home, and yet again, something is lacking for me. I tend to work with dreams in an embodied experiential way, in this case, to enter into a direct experience of this little fox. What I come away with may be similar in sentiment, but reading the interpretation rather than experiencing my own neglected wild-animal nature is qualitatively so different. Another person holding the space for my direct experience is simply richer and more supportive of what can arise in the field between two people.

What Temple concludes about AI dream analysis is that it is a highly useful tool, but does not replace the human-to-human connection that takes place when we experience our dreams in the presence of another soul. There is something intangible and crucial about the intersubjective field that AI is incapable of generating. It is excellent at recognizing patterns, and is getting more sophisticated so quickly. But human beings are more than pattern recognition machines.

As an aside, I just had a relevant discussion about another kind of AI – active imagination – and intersubjectivity with Serge Prengel that you can listen to here: https://activepause.com/ellis-prengel-active-imagination/

There are now AI-supported apps that can provide therapy – usually the more formulaic forms like cognitive behavioural therapy. Although this cannot take the place of another human, it can offer help that is affordable and accessible. The same is true of dreamwork – although deeply sharing dream experience with another person creates a shared field not possible with a machine, not everyone has access to a dream analyst or dream partner. And the insights and avenues to consider that apps like Elsewhere and Temenos offer can often carry the dreamer further in their own exploration.

Dreams often depict our blind spots and areas to consider that we can be surprisingly obtuse about. Having another viewpoint can widen our perspective, regardless of its source. I find the dream apps useful as records of my dream life. And as interpreters, they are like another voice in a dream group – they offer ways to consider a dream that can lead somewhere or fall flat, and how to respond is entirely up to me.

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REM Rebound: Dream Intensification in Early Recovery in NOT a Bad Sign

The road to recovery from addiction has many challenges, but the intensification of dreams does not have to be one of them. The return of one’s dreams is normal, a good sign, and can be an ally in processing the upwelling of emotion that occurs during the recovery process.

Those who vow abstain from using their addictive substance of choice face many challenges in the early stages – cravings, loss of a familiar way of coping, boredom, periods of emotional intensity and a need to shift away from familiar habits and social patterns that went along with their substance use. What those in recovery don’t expect is to be further challenged (or helped) by their dream life.

Dreams of substance use are common among those in early recovery. They are often vivid enough to feel entirely real. For example, early in his abstinence from alcohol, ‘John’ dreamt of being at a party, carousing with his friends, downing a drink and reaching for another, firmly embedded in his pre-recovery life… only to wake and realize he had been dreaming. According to Kelly & Greene (2019), a ‘using dream’ leads to initial feelings of guilt and remorse, as if one had actually stepped off the wagon. This is typically followed by a sense of relief that the relapse didn’t happen in waking life, and that relief is a good sign.

Counsellor Aubrey Johnson, a student in my Embodied Experiential Dreamwork program, specializes in working with clients in addiction recovery. As her project for the class, she presented on the ‘using dreams’ of those in the recovery process. She said the research validates what she has often witnessed: the intensification of dreaming, especially in the early stages of recovery. In fact, these dreams are so intense they can be characterized as nightmares, and are a known phenomenon in addiction medicine.

One study (Millios, 2016) found that a full 84% of those pursuing sobriety were having substance-related dreams at 7 weeks’ abstinence. After a couple of months, the frequency of using dreams begins to diminish quickly, but they can revisit for a lifetime. Johnson says this make sense because recovery is also a life-long process. And although the study found REM rebound dreams peak at 7 weeks, she has seen the intense dreaming last for several months in some cases, and for the dreams to bring up challenging emotions associated with addiction.

 

What Induces Dreams of Using?

On a physiological level, REM Rebound accounts for much of the increased dream frequency and intensity. Many addictive substances, including alcohol, cannabis and benzodiazepenes suppress REM sleep and dreams. These substances can also disrupt natural sleep cycles, creating a deficit in REM/dreaming. When a person stops using a REM suppressant, their body immediately begins to make up for the REM deficit. Until natural sleep rhythms are restored, the person in early recovery will experience longer and more intense dream-rich sleep.

This explains why there are so many dreams, but why dreams of using? If Freud was right that some dreams express fulfillment of wishes, these dreams can be an unconscious reflection of the desire to use, and return to memories of euphoric experiences while under the influence. We tend to dream about powerful emotions, and especially those we repress, so it’s not surprising that memories of substance use will be woven into the dreams of those in recovery. It’s similar to the common experience of dreaming of one’s ex-partner in the weeks and months following a difficult break-up.

Addiction is now being understood not as a disease but as a way to self-regulate, often a response to trauma and overwhelming emotions (eg. Winhall & Porges, 2022). Addictive behaviors can stall emotional growth as challenging feelings are not being processed, but rather bypassed or numbed. The recovery process involves acknowledging hard feelings that have long been avoided, and learning alternative ways to be with and metabolize them. One of the functions of dreaming is emotional regulation; more turbulent feelings tend to express themselves in more intense dreaming. Rather than see this a problem, I suggest making the dreams allies in the recovery process, an aid to emotion processing. Encourage your clients to befriend the dreams, listen to them, welcome them, and in turn they will become friendlier, clearer and more helpful.

 

Are Using Dreams Helpful or Dangerous?

There is some conflicting evidence about whether dreams of using promote or prevent relapse, a great fear amongst those on that path to recovery. In keeping with the many theories of dreaming as a simulation, Kelly & Greene suggest using dreams may be a way of rehearsing situations that might tempt one to relapse, increasing awareness and motivation to stay sober. However, dreams of using can also increase cravings because they return the dreamer to a lived experience they may be missing.

Johnson, who works with the ‘using’ dreams of those in her practice, suggests some helpful practices for others who work with the dreams of those in recovery from addiction. She said it’s helpful to tell clients that using dreams are normal and highly prevalent, and they do not indicate potential relapse or that anything is going wrong. In fact, discussing the dreams can help the client struggling to adapt to abstinence by providing images that aid in processing the spectrum of emotions associated with the recovery process.

 

Kelly, J. F., & Claire Greene, M. (2019). The reality of drinking and drug using dreams: A study of the prevalence, predictors, and decay with time in recovery in a national sample of U.S. adults. Journal of substance abuse treatment, 96, 12–17. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsat.2018.10.005

Millios, R. (2016). Dreams in Recovery: “Using” and Relapse Dreams – What Do They Mean? American Addiction Centers. https://recovery.org/pro/articles/dreams-in-recovery-using-and-relapse-dreams-what-do-they-mean/

Winhall, J., & Porges, S. W. (2022). Revolutionizing Addiction Treatment with The Felt Sense Polyvagal Model. International Body Psychotherapy Journal21(1).

Dream to remember, dream to forget, dream to feel better…

Dreaming after an emotional experience might help us feel better in the morning

Although dreaming has been implicated in the consolidation of memories, it seems we also dream to forget. In a similar way that sleep has been shown to clean our brains of clutter, a recent study supports the notion that dreaming helps us rid our minds of non-essential memories so we can focus on what is important to us, but only if we remember our dreams.

Zhang and colleagues (2024) recently completed a study that supports an active role for dreaming in reducing next-day reactivity associated with emotional memories. Their research also suggests there is a mechanism in which dreams enhance salient emotional experiences at the expense of less relevant, or neutral memories. In short, dreaming helps us remember and process what’s important to us, and to forget what is not. But again, only if we recall our dreams.

This is an interesting feature of the study – the results only applied to those who recall dreams. We know that just because we don’t recall dreams in the morning, this does not mean we did not dream during the night. Most of our dreams are forgotten; it has been suggested that dreams do their job even when we don’t recall them. However, this study demonstrates an important role for dreams that we remember upon waking – a possibly a reason it’s worth cultivating greater dream recall.

According to the authors: “This study asks why we dream. Building on prior work demonstrating a link between sleep and the processing of emotional memories, we examine whether dreaming alters overnight memory and emotional reactivity on an emotional picture task. We found that participants who reported dreaming exhibited an emotional memory trade-off, prioritizing retention of negative images over neutral memories, a pattern that was absent in those who did not recall their dreams. Moreover, dreaming was associated with decreased emotional reactivity to negative memories the following day, with reduced reactivity tied to more positive dream content. We provide the first empirical support for dreaming’s active involvement in sleep-dependent emotional memory processing, suggesting that dreaming after an emotional experience might help us feel better in the morning.”

This article juxtaposes the continuity hypothesis of dreaming with that of dreaming as emotional regulation. “The Emotion Regulation theory of dreaming is different from the Continuity theory of dreaming as it proposes that dreams lead to a functional change in emotion regulation during waking.” The authors note a dichotomy in the prevalent theories about dreaming – those who consider dreaming a passive activity ascribe to the continuity of dream affect before, during and after dreaming. Those who ascribe to Emotion Regulation or Simulation theories suggest dreaming plays an active role in changing one’s experience (albeit by different mechanisms: Emotion Regulation by downregulating negative emotions, and Simulation Theory by preparing for future experiences).

The current study is an attempt to test whether dreams actively support the transformation of emotional reactivity by measuring changes after a night of sleep in both those who report dreams and those who do not recall any dreams. If the dream recallers have decreased reactivity the morning after dreaming, this would support the sleep-to-forget, sleep-to-remember (SFSR) hypothesis. SFSR is supported by previous studies which show that REM sleep preferentially preserves emotional memories over neutral ones.

However, the authors note that results of research into the effect of REM sleep on emotional reactivity are decidedly mixed – some studies show increased regulation, others, increased arousal. In surveying existing literature, the authors reached the conclusion that “dreaming might play a role in both the memory consolidation and the emotional regulation aspects of emotional memory processing.”

To test the change in next-day emotional reactivity after memorable dreaming, 125 women were studied, in a mix of sleep lab and at-home settings. The authors were able to replicate prior reports of an emotional memory trade-off in which sleep preferentially enhances consolidation of negative versus neutral memories. They suggest their study “highlights the critical role of dreaming in emotional memory processing during sleep.”

The study also supported prior research showing that emotional reactivity to previous experiences decreases after a night of sleep, but again, this effect was only present in those who remembered their dreams. In participants who did not recall dreams, no significant differences were found between negative and neutral memory performance. This interesting distinction was flagged as “remarkable” and an important topic for future research.

 

Zhang J, Pena A, Delano N, Sattari N, Shuster AE, Baker FC, Simon K, Mednick SC. Evidence of an active role of dreaming in emotional memory processing shows that we dream to forget. Sci Rep. 2024 Apr 15;14(1):8722. doi: 10.1038/s41598-024-58170-z. PMID: 38622204; PMCID: PMC11018802.

Trauma-Related Nightmare Type Linked to Higher Suicide Risk

Adding to the robust literature linking nightmares to suicide risk, a new study offers an important distinction for clinicians: of the 3 nightmare types identified by researchers, only trauma-related nightmares are linked to a greater risk of suicide (Youngren et al., 2024). Idiopathic and complex nightmares (comorbid with sleep and breathing problems) do not lead to higher suicide risk.

The study is important for a couple of reasons. First, it supports the theory of differing nightmare types and their resulting effects on mental health. Second, it provides guidance for clinicians who treat trauma, nightmares, and suicidality. The study also found that those who suffer from trauma-related or complex nightmares are more likely to seek treatment than those who experience idiopathic nightmares.

The study used a sample of 3,543 veterans who had previously attempted suicide. The main goal of the study was to examine the relationship of nightmare type to both suicide reattempt and treatment utilization. Multiple logistical regression analysis showed that when controlling for anxiety and depression, only trauma-related nightmares significantly predicted suicide re-attempts.

The authors speculated that the difference in nightmare content for trauma-related nightmares may account for their greater links with suicide. Trauma-related nightmares tend to be more direct replication of traumatic events, and are more easily recalled than other types of nightmares. Therefore, those who have frequent trauma nightmares are more likely to re-experience their traumatic memories. This can lead to life-threatening despair on its own. And it can also create higher levels of distress that interfere with sleep. Insufficient and poor-quality sleep have been clearly linked to suicide, with or without nightmares.

The authors advocate for nightmare treatment: “Regardless of the mechanism, our findings support treating nightmares to potentially reduce suicide risk.” They note that although prior studies how shown that both psychotherapy and medication failed to reliably help with PTSD-related nightmares (e.g. Peppard et al., 2013; Raskine et al., 2013), the outcome picture is altered when nightmare type is considered. According to a Youngren (2021), when nightmares are divided by type: “trauma-related nightmares appeared to decrease after nightmare-specific therapies such as ERRT, whereas complex nightmares did not.”

This is good news for clinicians. Nightmares directly related to trauma are most highly linked to suicide risk and also appear to be the most amenable to treatment. More good news – although previous studies suggest nightmares are vastly undertreated, the current study shows that those with trauma-related nightmares are more likely to seek treatment than those who suffer from idiopathic (less dangerous) nightmares.

Also noteworthy: the term ‘complex nightmares’ to denote nightmares associated with sleep-disordered breathing (SDB) is a new one. Such nightmares can also be trauma-related, but are associated with poorer dream recall. More research is needed to understand the distinctions between these complex states and their implications for treatment.

Overall this important study is yet another reason for clinicians to ask about nightmares, especially for those patients with suicidal ideation or previous attempts. Another step is to determine whether the dreams depict memories of specific traumatic events. If so, nightmare treatment is not only warranted, but according these recent finding, may reduce both the nightmares and the risk of suicide.

 

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References

Youngren, W. A., Bishop, T., Carr, M., Mattera, E., & Pigeon, W. (2024). Nightmare types and suicide. Dreaming34(1), 1.

Youngren, W., Balderas, J., & Farrell-Higgins, J. (2021). How sleep disordered breathing impacts posttrauma nightmares and rescripting therapies. Dreaming, 31(1), 20–31. https://doi.org/10.1037/ drm0000161

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How Does My Dream Mean?

Feel into the dream images to arrive at your own answers

Yes, you read that correctly. So many people come to me with a dream image or story and want an immediate answer to the question: what does it mean? It’s natural to want to know this because dream images are often so strange and powerfully evocative that we sense there is meaning in them.

But I want to impress on you that meaning in dreaming is not the same as an intellectual understanding or a goal-oriented response to the image. Dreams almost never present a life situation and spell out what you should do. They are asking you to do something quite different – to feel into the image and arrive at your own answers.

When friends ask me what their dream means, I think they are often looking for a particular solution, a quick explanation that will make the dream make sense. But this isn’t how dreams convey meaning. When we’re dreaming, our prefrontal cortex, the part of our brain that thinks logically and makes plans for the future, is mostly asleep. That’s why we can’t seem to find our gate at the airport, act in a decisive fashion, or even notice that we are in the strange world of dreaming. Dreams don’t come from a place of logic but instead are mediated by a different set of neural correlates, the same as those active in daydreaming. It is an imaginative and creative state that moves forward in non-logical steps.

Dreams are the same – they are a world apart from logic, characterized by images and infused with emotion. So to really understand a dream, you need to feel your way into the image. The meaning will come through your body and not necessarily in words, but rather in a felt sense of meaning and of depth. Dream meaning takes you deeper than words, so to really grasp it I suggest you first revisit it experientially, immerse in the felt meaning and then you can try to express this in words, images, music, movement, or whatever medium seems best.

This creative expression will point to the meaning of your dream, though may never quite capture it all. This is because we never have perfect recall of our dream-state experience. There is always a sense of having left far more insight and experience in the dream realm than we can recall. We are left with snippets and fragments and can piece a sense of the whole together from there. It will be imperfect, much like a piece of writing or drawing will never be exactly like what you are trying to express. But the attempt to express is what will bring you closer to how your dream expresses the felt meaning it carries.

 

Meaning and memory sources are not the same

Sometimes dreamers think they understand the meaning of their dream because they can identify the memory sources of their dream. If they saw a scary movie the night before dreaming about a ghost, they’ll say the movie is why they dreamt about a ghost.

This is only partly true. Dreams do pick up ‘day residue’ and also older memories as source material. I see these as a palette for our dream-maker to draw from and recombine so that the dream weaves images that are uniquely meaningful to us. I believe particular images are presented in a way that evokes a nuanced kind of felt sense that we will recognize. Dreams draw from images from our past and yet mostly create new images that are hybrids of things we know and things that are new. Just because you can recognize the memory source doesn’t mean that you already know what the dream means. You’ll still have to feel your way into the image, to understand it at an embodied level.

Dreams express themselves through an embodied emotional experience and can only truly be understood if you re-enter that experience and allow it to speak to you. If you’re looking for a tidy, simple explanation of your dream, you are not going to find it. Or if you do come up with an explanation like that, it may satisfy your intellect, but it won’t be complete. Instead, it will be a delimiting version of what your dream might mean. Like a felt sense, the dream always means more and can open us up to much more than we can immediately say about it. This is part of what makes them so deeply evocative.

Dream Program Doubles Confidence in Working with Dreams

The reviews are in! Those who just completed the year-long Embodied Experiential Dreamwork program last year said their confidence in tending dreams is now at 8 out of 10 – up from a class average of 3.7 at the start of the program.

If you are considering taking this program, you may be interested in what our recent grads had to say about it. Here are some of the comments from our exit survey:

“Since taking this program, personally, I now pay more attention to my dreams because I am more fully at ease with them and  have various ways of being with them – many ways of opening the doors that can lead to possible meanings.

Professionally, I can offer clients these ways of helping them be with their dreams, particularly bad dreams and nightmares. For those considering taking this program: it is well worth the time, energy and effort. There is so much specifically and practically to learn about dreams and how to work with them.”

– Tom Larkin, Focusing Oriented Therapist and Certifying Coordinator

 

“I really liked both theoretical and experiential learning. I was needing a more structured and systematic knowledge about dreamwork, and this course really provided me with that. It’s a beautiful foundation. I also liked our group very much, so many beautiful people with different backgrounds and sensitivities, and I think that all of us being honest and engaged together really contributed to the richness of experience.”

– Ivana Kolakovic, Registered Psychotherapist

 

“My most loved aspects were witnessing Leslie working with dreams in a group setting, and the intimacy of the group itself. I also loved the spaciousness in the container and the levity Leslie brought to the group. Clinically, I loved the experiential aspects of focusing and dreamwork combined.  As a result of taking this program, I now move slower with my dreams and I feel more connected to figures and aspects that show up. I also feel more resourced in my work with dreams.

Something else I loved about this program is that it wasn’t formulaic, but process oriented, which really supported the individual finding their own way. It was a nice blend of clinical and personal exploration.

I would also say another benefit is the small group size, because you really get to be in a safe and intimate space. It also provides an opportunity to try on others’ dream images and expand figures within your own dreamscape.”

– Jaclyn Woods, LMFT

 

“If you’re interested in working with dreams this is a solid, inspiring, practical, evidence-based method that has empowered me to connect more deeply with my own dream life and work with my clients and their dreams with confidence.”

– Kate Tenni, Sensorimotor Art Therapist and Grief Counsellor

 

About the Instructor(s) – Here are a few comments, thank you so much

Leslie has so so much knowledge but also this beautiful talent for attunement and sensitivity to track the dreamer’s internal life

10+! Leslie was brilliant! She was clear, flexible, so empathic. She created a lovely virtual space in which to be and work, and held each of us preciously when we shared.

Leslie is thoroughly knowledgeable, extremely skilled and competent, open and welcoming, responsive, flexible, clear, articulate, tech savvy, approachable.

Robbyn is also incredibly gifted.  The sessions with her were such a helpful supplement and practice time. (Robbyn assists with the class and offers a bonus dream session between class meetings.)

For more information about the ‘EE’ program, here is the link.