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Dreams and Psychedelics: Similarities and potential therapeutic benefits

Research into the therapeutic potential of psychedelic (serotonergic) substances is experiencing a resurgence after lying dormant in North America for more than 50 years. Early research suggests these once-vilified substances show great promise in treating depression, anxiety, alcohol addiction, and potentially many other challenging conditions. This emerging area is ripe for the use of dreamwork techniques to help with the integration of psychedelic visionary experiences that have much in common with dreams.

Psychedelic visions and dreams: Vehicles for attenuating fear memories

From a neurobiological perspective, dreams and psychedelic visions (PVs) share similar forms of perception, mental imagery, fear memory extinction, emotional activation and distorted senses of self and body. This is according to a comprehensive review of the literature on the neurophenomenology of both dreams and psychedelic experiences (Kraehenmann, 2017). A major difference the author noted is that there is greater clarity of consciousness and meta-cognition in PVs, suggesting these experiences are closer to lucid dreaming (the ability to become aware of the dream state while still in it).

One of the areas of overlap that has significant therapeutic potential is the attenuation of fear memories. During dreaming, the brain’s limbic emotion processing network is more active than in wakefulness; in dreams, fear memories are often revisited, but broken into more isolated units, and associated with novel contexts. These are also the steps that lead to fear memory extinction, with a final step being emotional expression of the new experience, which consolidates the updated version. Even better, Kraehenmann states that “Dreaming might also directly rewrite fear memories via memory reconsolidation.” This process involves activation of an emotional memory, followed by a new, less fearful experiencing of it within the ‘reconsolidation window’ which permanently updates old fear memories.

In my decades of work as a trauma therapist, I have found that dreams provide excellent fodder for further therapeutic effects when reactivated while awake. In those who suffer from frequent nightmares, the dreams are remain fear-laden over time because the memory reconsolidation process is often interrupted as the emotion is so strong it wakes the dreamer up mid-process. But in a dream therapy session, the fear memory can be opened up again via dream re-experiencing. Then, in a supportive environment where fear is significantly reduced, the dream story can be metabolized and rewritten, permanently updating the original fear memory. When I have worked with nightmares in this way, the most common reported effect the removal of the emotional charge from the dream/memory. The memory is still accessible, but no longer activates a fear response, and this changes the dream itself.

The same kinds of mechanisms may be at work in psychedelic journeys – the activation and recombination of fear memories in a way that has the potential to remove the element of fear from the experience. As with experiential therapy for dreams, a similar process can be used for PVs to integrate the visions and hallucinations that have arisen, and to help reduce the emotional charge from the experience if there is residual fear present.

Optimism and Caution

Although psychedelic substances are still illegal in most countries (as was the case with cannabis before widespread legalization), there is an underground community already using these substances for therapeutic benefit. Legal permission is being granted for use in research in limited, but rapidly-expanding ways as early results show both promise and acceptable safety.

There is a dark side, however, to this mostly good news story. Recent studies are mainly small and many of them not well-designed. Within the community already using psychedelics, often in group therapy sessions, there are varying degrees of safety and levels of appropriate supervision. From those pioneering psychedelic journeyers, we mainly hear about the successes, and less about the frightening and disorienting experiences that can also result.

What the community of psychedelic pathfinders are discovering is that preparation, setting and post-treatment integration are key elements of success. Best practices, although still a work in progress, are emerging.  A scoping review by Golden and colleagues (2022) found that the main aspects of setting that can positively impact the experience include music/sound, religious or ritual contexts, group versus individual sessions, socio-cultural norms/expectations, and physical environment. Unfortunately, researchers found the existing data is too patchy, sparse or observational to establish evidence-based practices. Adding to the complexity, responses vary across individuals.

Despite the lack of empirical evidence about the factors that lead to success, early research into use of psychedelics for specific clinical conditions is quite promising. A recent meta-analysis of current research shows that psychedelics (psilocybin, LSD, ayahuasca) can be a part of safe, effective treatment protocol for depression, even in treatment-resistant, life-threatening cases (Ko et al., 2023). Another systematic review of 16 studies conducted between 2000 and 2020 showed that psychedelic substances were safe and effective for depression, anxiety, OCD, and tobacco and alcohol use disorders. They noted that the effects appeared to last weeks or even months after just 1-3 sessions, with no severe adverse effects reported (Andersen et al., 2021).

As someone who works with dream material and teaches therapists how to help clients navigate these rich imaginative realms, I believe these same methods can help with the integration of the dream-like aspects of psychedelic journeys. This feels like a rich potential extension of methods developed for experiential dream therapy and in particular, a way to continue the process of taking the charge out of frightening memories and images.

 

Andersen, K. A., Carhart‐Harris, R., Nutt, D. J., & Erritzoe, D. (2021). Therapeutic effects of classic serotonergic psychedelics: A systematic review of modern‐era clinical studies. Acta Psychiatrica Scandinavica143(2), 101-118.

Golden, T. L., Magsamen, S., Sandu, C. C., Lin, S., Roebuck, G. M., Shi, K. M., & Barrett, F. S. (2022). Effects of setting on psychedelic experiences, therapies, and outcomes: A rapid scoping review of the literature. Disruptive Psychopharmacology, 35-70.

Ko, K., Kopra, E. I., Cleare, A. J., & Rucker, J. J. (2023). Psychedelic therapy for depressive symptoms: A systematic review and meta-analysis. Journal of Affective Disorders322, 194-204.

Kraehenmann, R. (2017). Dreams and psychedelics: neurophenomenological comparison and therapeutic implications. Current neuropharmacology15(7), 1032-1042.

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Can AI Interpret Your Dreams?

With AI flooding the world with all kinds of applications, of course there are now several AI apps on the market for recording and interpreting dreams – my current favorites are Elsewhere and Temenos. Some of the questions that immediately arise: Does AI do a good job with helping us explore our dreams? What are the pros and cons of using this technology as a way to engage in our dreaming lives?

John Temple, the creator of Temenos, a dream tracking and interpretation app, says the technology is useful, but has limits. He spoke at length on this on the June 20 podcast episode of This Jungian Life (well worth a listen). He said that in the process of testing this program, he sent numerous dreams to be interpreted and found it exhausting. “Your psyche recognizes that it’s not another human soul responding.” He suggests Temenos as a useful tool, but not to overdo it. His sense is that what’s healing in the process of dreamwork is the human connection, something AI can’t replace.

That said, an app can offer interesting suggestions you may not have thought of. If you treat its analysis as coming from one of many members of a dream group, as a reflection to consider and take or leave, it can carry your understanding of the dream forward, sometimes in creatively helpful ways. Temple notes that in dreams, our blind spots are often so evident to others and, by definition, invisible to us. Other voices, including the possible interpretations via an app, enlarge our perspective and may enable us to see the very aspects that we’re missing.

Interpretation aside, dream apps can also be used as a way to record dreams easily and store them all in a single, searchable database – much more efficient than searching through stacks of old dream journals. For example, using the Temenos app, you can speak your dream into your phone and it will transcribe it and store it, and it prompts you to add notes about emotional tone and associations, even generates an image of the dream. Over time, you have a long-term, detailed, searchable record of your dream life, and with this, different questions you can explore – like how a dream element or symbol appears and evolves over time. A premium (ie paid) version of the app lets you join a dream community to share dreams with small groups, or the whole community.

Another great dream AI app is Elsewhere, which offers most of the same functions as Temenos (although its community functions are still under development). I tested it out with a dream I had of an Irish Setter that turns into a fox, a slightly wild and unkempt little creature that is ambivalent about being held by me. The app takes care to offer its interpretation as something to consider, not as gospel, beginning its response with: “If it were my dream, I would interpret is as follows…” It then describes the fox as a “cunning, adaptable, and resourceful” aspect of myself that is perhaps undernourished.

This feels both plausible and a little too reliant on generic meaning. It doesn’t resonate. But a later phrase does seem worth pondering, a suggestion that the dream “could be a reflection of your own desire to balance your wild and free-spirited nature with the need for stability and nurturing.” This feels a little closer to home, and yet again, something is lacking for me. I tend to work with dreams in an embodied experiential way, in this case, to enter into a direct experience of this little fox. What I come away with may be similar in sentiment, but reading the interpretation rather than experiencing my own neglected wild-animal nature is qualitatively so different. Another person holding the space for my direct experience is simply richer and more supportive of what can arise in the field between two people.

What Temple concludes about AI dream analysis is that it is a highly useful tool, but does not replace the human-to-human connection that takes place when we experience our dreams in the presence of another soul. There is something intangible and crucial about the intersubjective field that AI is incapable of generating. It is excellent at recognizing patterns, and is getting more sophisticated so quickly. But human beings are more than pattern recognition machines.

As an aside, I just had a relevant discussion about another kind of AI – active imagination – and intersubjectivity with Serge Prengel that you can listen to here: https://activepause.com/ellis-prengel-active-imagination/

There are now AI-supported apps that can provide therapy – usually the more formulaic forms like cognitive behavioural therapy. Although this cannot take the place of another human, it can offer help that is affordable and accessible. The same is true of dreamwork – although deeply sharing dream experience with another person creates a shared field not possible with a machine, not everyone has access to a dream analyst or dream partner. And the insights and avenues to consider that apps like Elsewhere and Temenos offer can often carry the dreamer further in their own exploration.

Dreams often depict our blind spots and areas to consider that we can be surprisingly obtuse about. Having another viewpoint can widen our perspective, regardless of its source. I find the dream apps useful as records of my dream life. And as interpreters, they are like another voice in a dream group – they offer ways to consider a dream that can lead somewhere or fall flat, and how to respond is entirely up to me.

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REM Rebound: Dream Intensification in Early Recovery in NOT a Bad Sign

The road to recovery from addiction has many challenges, but the intensification of dreams does not have to be one of them. The return of one’s dreams is normal, a good sign, and can be an ally in processing the upwelling of emotion that occurs during the recovery process.

Those who vow abstain from using their addictive substance of choice face many challenges in the early stages – cravings, loss of a familiar way of coping, boredom, periods of emotional intensity and a need to shift away from familiar habits and social patterns that went along with their substance use. What those in recovery don’t expect is to be further challenged (or helped) by their dream life.

Dreams of substance use are common among those in early recovery. They are often vivid enough to feel entirely real. For example, early in his abstinence from alcohol, ‘John’ dreamt of being at a party, carousing with his friends, downing a drink and reaching for another, firmly embedded in his pre-recovery life… only to wake and realize he had been dreaming. According to Kelly & Greene (2019), a ‘using dream’ leads to initial feelings of guilt and remorse, as if one had actually stepped off the wagon. This is typically followed by a sense of relief that the relapse didn’t happen in waking life, and that relief is a good sign.

Counsellor Aubrey Johnson, a student in my Embodied Experiential Dreamwork program, specializes in working with clients in addiction recovery. As her project for the class, she presented on the ‘using dreams’ of those in the recovery process. She said the research validates what she has often witnessed: the intensification of dreaming, especially in the early stages of recovery. In fact, these dreams are so intense they can be characterized as nightmares, and are a known phenomenon in addiction medicine.

One study (Millios, 2016) found that a full 84% of those pursuing sobriety were having substance-related dreams at 7 weeks’ abstinence. After a couple of months, the frequency of using dreams begins to diminish quickly, but they can revisit for a lifetime. Johnson says this make sense because recovery is also a life-long process. And although the study found REM rebound dreams peak at 7 weeks, she has seen the intense dreaming last for several months in some cases, and for the dreams to bring up challenging emotions associated with addiction.

 

What Induces Dreams of Using?

On a physiological level, REM Rebound accounts for much of the increased dream frequency and intensity. Many addictive substances, including alcohol, cannabis and benzodiazepenes suppress REM sleep and dreams. These substances can also disrupt natural sleep cycles, creating a deficit in REM/dreaming. When a person stops using a REM suppressant, their body immediately begins to make up for the REM deficit. Until natural sleep rhythms are restored, the person in early recovery will experience longer and more intense dream-rich sleep.

This explains why there are so many dreams, but why dreams of using? If Freud was right that some dreams express fulfillment of wishes, these dreams can be an unconscious reflection of the desire to use, and return to memories of euphoric experiences while under the influence. We tend to dream about powerful emotions, and especially those we repress, so it’s not surprising that memories of substance use will be woven into the dreams of those in recovery. It’s similar to the common experience of dreaming of one’s ex-partner in the weeks and months following a difficult break-up.

Addiction is now being understood not as a disease but as a way to self-regulate, often a response to trauma and overwhelming emotions (eg. Winhall & Porges, 2022). Addictive behaviors can stall emotional growth as challenging feelings are not being processed, but rather bypassed or numbed. The recovery process involves acknowledging hard feelings that have long been avoided, and learning alternative ways to be with and metabolize them. One of the functions of dreaming is emotional regulation; more turbulent feelings tend to express themselves in more intense dreaming. Rather than see this a problem, I suggest making the dreams allies in the recovery process, an aid to emotion processing. Encourage your clients to befriend the dreams, listen to them, welcome them, and in turn they will become friendlier, clearer and more helpful.

 

Are Using Dreams Helpful or Dangerous?

There is some conflicting evidence about whether dreams of using promote or prevent relapse, a great fear amongst those on that path to recovery. In keeping with the many theories of dreaming as a simulation, Kelly & Greene suggest using dreams may be a way of rehearsing situations that might tempt one to relapse, increasing awareness and motivation to stay sober. However, dreams of using can also increase cravings because they return the dreamer to a lived experience they may be missing.

Johnson, who works with the ‘using’ dreams of those in her practice, suggests some helpful practices for others who work with the dreams of those in recovery from addiction. She said it’s helpful to tell clients that using dreams are normal and highly prevalent, and they do not indicate potential relapse or that anything is going wrong. In fact, discussing the dreams can help the client struggling to adapt to abstinence by providing images that aid in processing the spectrum of emotions associated with the recovery process.

 

Kelly, J. F., & Claire Greene, M. (2019). The reality of drinking and drug using dreams: A study of the prevalence, predictors, and decay with time in recovery in a national sample of U.S. adults. Journal of substance abuse treatment, 96, 12–17. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsat.2018.10.005

Millios, R. (2016). Dreams in Recovery: “Using” and Relapse Dreams – What Do They Mean? American Addiction Centers. https://recovery.org/pro/articles/dreams-in-recovery-using-and-relapse-dreams-what-do-they-mean/

Winhall, J., & Porges, S. W. (2022). Revolutionizing Addiction Treatment with The Felt Sense Polyvagal Model. International Body Psychotherapy Journal21(1).

Dream to remember, dream to forget, dream to feel better…

Dreaming after an emotional experience might help us feel better in the morning

Although dreaming has been implicated in the consolidation of memories, it seems we also dream to forget. In a similar way that sleep has been shown to clean our brains of clutter, a recent study supports the notion that dreaming helps us rid our minds of non-essential memories so we can focus on what is important to us, but only if we remember our dreams.

Zhang and colleagues (2024) recently completed a study that supports an active role for dreaming in reducing next-day reactivity associated with emotional memories. Their research also suggests there is a mechanism in which dreams enhance salient emotional experiences at the expense of less relevant, or neutral memories. In short, dreaming helps us remember and process what’s important to us, and to forget what is not. But again, only if we recall our dreams.

This is an interesting feature of the study – the results only applied to those who recall dreams. We know that just because we don’t recall dreams in the morning, this does not mean we did not dream during the night. Most of our dreams are forgotten; it has been suggested that dreams do their job even when we don’t recall them. However, this study demonstrates an important role for dreams that we remember upon waking – a possibly a reason it’s worth cultivating greater dream recall.

According to the authors: “This study asks why we dream. Building on prior work demonstrating a link between sleep and the processing of emotional memories, we examine whether dreaming alters overnight memory and emotional reactivity on an emotional picture task. We found that participants who reported dreaming exhibited an emotional memory trade-off, prioritizing retention of negative images over neutral memories, a pattern that was absent in those who did not recall their dreams. Moreover, dreaming was associated with decreased emotional reactivity to negative memories the following day, with reduced reactivity tied to more positive dream content. We provide the first empirical support for dreaming’s active involvement in sleep-dependent emotional memory processing, suggesting that dreaming after an emotional experience might help us feel better in the morning.”

This article juxtaposes the continuity hypothesis of dreaming with that of dreaming as emotional regulation. “The Emotion Regulation theory of dreaming is different from the Continuity theory of dreaming as it proposes that dreams lead to a functional change in emotion regulation during waking.” The authors note a dichotomy in the prevalent theories about dreaming – those who consider dreaming a passive activity ascribe to the continuity of dream affect before, during and after dreaming. Those who ascribe to Emotion Regulation or Simulation theories suggest dreaming plays an active role in changing one’s experience (albeit by different mechanisms: Emotion Regulation by downregulating negative emotions, and Simulation Theory by preparing for future experiences).

The current study is an attempt to test whether dreams actively support the transformation of emotional reactivity by measuring changes after a night of sleep in both those who report dreams and those who do not recall any dreams. If the dream recallers have decreased reactivity the morning after dreaming, this would support the sleep-to-forget, sleep-to-remember (SFSR) hypothesis. SFSR is supported by previous studies which show that REM sleep preferentially preserves emotional memories over neutral ones.

However, the authors note that results of research into the effect of REM sleep on emotional reactivity are decidedly mixed – some studies show increased regulation, others, increased arousal. In surveying existing literature, the authors reached the conclusion that “dreaming might play a role in both the memory consolidation and the emotional regulation aspects of emotional memory processing.”

To test the change in next-day emotional reactivity after memorable dreaming, 125 women were studied, in a mix of sleep lab and at-home settings. The authors were able to replicate prior reports of an emotional memory trade-off in which sleep preferentially enhances consolidation of negative versus neutral memories. They suggest their study “highlights the critical role of dreaming in emotional memory processing during sleep.”

The study also supported prior research showing that emotional reactivity to previous experiences decreases after a night of sleep, but again, this effect was only present in those who remembered their dreams. In participants who did not recall dreams, no significant differences were found between negative and neutral memory performance. This interesting distinction was flagged as “remarkable” and an important topic for future research.

 

Zhang J, Pena A, Delano N, Sattari N, Shuster AE, Baker FC, Simon K, Mednick SC. Evidence of an active role of dreaming in emotional memory processing shows that we dream to forget. Sci Rep. 2024 Apr 15;14(1):8722. doi: 10.1038/s41598-024-58170-z. PMID: 38622204; PMCID: PMC11018802.

Trauma-Related Nightmare Type Linked to Higher Suicide Risk

Adding to the robust literature linking nightmares to suicide risk, a new study offers an important distinction for clinicians: of the 3 nightmare types identified by researchers, only trauma-related nightmares are linked to a greater risk of suicide (Youngren et al., 2024). Idiopathic and complex nightmares (comorbid with sleep and breathing problems) do not lead to higher suicide risk.

The study is important for a couple of reasons. First, it supports the theory of differing nightmare types and their resulting effects on mental health. Second, it provides guidance for clinicians who treat trauma, nightmares, and suicidality. The study also found that those who suffer from trauma-related or complex nightmares are more likely to seek treatment than those who experience idiopathic nightmares.

The study used a sample of 3,543 veterans who had previously attempted suicide. The main goal of the study was to examine the relationship of nightmare type to both suicide reattempt and treatment utilization. Multiple logistical regression analysis showed that when controlling for anxiety and depression, only trauma-related nightmares significantly predicted suicide re-attempts.

The authors speculated that the difference in nightmare content for trauma-related nightmares may account for their greater links with suicide. Trauma-related nightmares tend to be more direct replication of traumatic events, and are more easily recalled than other types of nightmares. Therefore, those who have frequent trauma nightmares are more likely to re-experience their traumatic memories. This can lead to life-threatening despair on its own. And it can also create higher levels of distress that interfere with sleep. Insufficient and poor-quality sleep have been clearly linked to suicide, with or without nightmares.

The authors advocate for nightmare treatment: “Regardless of the mechanism, our findings support treating nightmares to potentially reduce suicide risk.” They note that although prior studies how shown that both psychotherapy and medication failed to reliably help with PTSD-related nightmares (e.g. Peppard et al., 2013; Raskine et al., 2013), the outcome picture is altered when nightmare type is considered. According to a Youngren (2021), when nightmares are divided by type: “trauma-related nightmares appeared to decrease after nightmare-specific therapies such as ERRT, whereas complex nightmares did not.”

This is good news for clinicians. Nightmares directly related to trauma are most highly linked to suicide risk and also appear to be the most amenable to treatment. More good news – although previous studies suggest nightmares are vastly undertreated, the current study shows that those with trauma-related nightmares are more likely to seek treatment than those who suffer from idiopathic (less dangerous) nightmares.

Also noteworthy: the term ‘complex nightmares’ to denote nightmares associated with sleep-disordered breathing (SDB) is a new one. Such nightmares can also be trauma-related, but are associated with poorer dream recall. More research is needed to understand the distinctions between these complex states and their implications for treatment.

Overall this important study is yet another reason for clinicians to ask about nightmares, especially for those patients with suicidal ideation or previous attempts. Another step is to determine whether the dreams depict memories of specific traumatic events. If so, nightmare treatment is not only warranted, but according these recent finding, may reduce both the nightmares and the risk of suicide.

 

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References

Youngren, W. A., Bishop, T., Carr, M., Mattera, E., & Pigeon, W. (2024). Nightmare types and suicide. Dreaming34(1), 1.

Youngren, W., Balderas, J., & Farrell-Higgins, J. (2021). How sleep disordered breathing impacts posttrauma nightmares and rescripting therapies. Dreaming, 31(1), 20–31. https://doi.org/10.1037/ drm0000161

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How Does My Dream Mean?

Feel into the dream images to arrive at your own answers

Yes, you read that correctly. So many people come to me with a dream image or story and want an immediate answer to the question: what does it mean? It’s natural to want to know this because dream images are often so strange and powerfully evocative that we sense there is meaning in them.

But I want to impress on you that meaning in dreaming is not the same as an intellectual understanding or a goal-oriented response to the image. Dreams almost never present a life situation and spell out what you should do. They are asking you to do something quite different – to feel into the image and arrive at your own answers.

When friends ask me what their dream means, I think they are often looking for a particular solution, a quick explanation that will make the dream make sense. But this isn’t how dreams convey meaning. When we’re dreaming, our prefrontal cortex, the part of our brain that thinks logically and makes plans for the future, is mostly asleep. That’s why we can’t seem to find our gate at the airport, act in a decisive fashion, or even notice that we are in the strange world of dreaming. Dreams don’t come from a place of logic but instead are mediated by a different set of neural correlates, the same as those active in daydreaming. It is an imaginative and creative state that moves forward in non-logical steps.

Dreams are the same – they are a world apart from logic, characterized by images and infused with emotion. So to really understand a dream, you need to feel your way into the image. The meaning will come through your body and not necessarily in words, but rather in a felt sense of meaning and of depth. Dream meaning takes you deeper than words, so to really grasp it I suggest you first revisit it experientially, immerse in the felt meaning and then you can try to express this in words, images, music, movement, or whatever medium seems best.

This creative expression will point to the meaning of your dream, though may never quite capture it all. This is because we never have perfect recall of our dream-state experience. There is always a sense of having left far more insight and experience in the dream realm than we can recall. We are left with snippets and fragments and can piece a sense of the whole together from there. It will be imperfect, much like a piece of writing or drawing will never be exactly like what you are trying to express. But the attempt to express is what will bring you closer to how your dream expresses the felt meaning it carries.

 

Meaning and memory sources are not the same

Sometimes dreamers think they understand the meaning of their dream because they can identify the memory sources of their dream. If they saw a scary movie the night before dreaming about a ghost, they’ll say the movie is why they dreamt about a ghost.

This is only partly true. Dreams do pick up ‘day residue’ and also older memories as source material. I see these as a palette for our dream-maker to draw from and recombine so that the dream weaves images that are uniquely meaningful to us. I believe particular images are presented in a way that evokes a nuanced kind of felt sense that we will recognize. Dreams draw from images from our past and yet mostly create new images that are hybrids of things we know and things that are new. Just because you can recognize the memory source doesn’t mean that you already know what the dream means. You’ll still have to feel your way into the image, to understand it at an embodied level.

Dreams express themselves through an embodied emotional experience and can only truly be understood if you re-enter that experience and allow it to speak to you. If you’re looking for a tidy, simple explanation of your dream, you are not going to find it. Or if you do come up with an explanation like that, it may satisfy your intellect, but it won’t be complete. Instead, it will be a delimiting version of what your dream might mean. Like a felt sense, the dream always means more and can open us up to much more than we can immediately say about it. This is part of what makes them so deeply evocative.

Dream Program Doubles Confidence in Working with Dreams

The reviews are in! Those who just completed the year-long Embodied Experiential Dreamwork program last year said their confidence in tending dreams is now at 8 out of 10 – up from a class average of 3.7 at the start of the program.

If you are considering taking this program, you may be interested in what our recent grads had to say about it. Here are some of the comments from our exit survey:

“Since taking this program, personally, I now pay more attention to my dreams because I am more fully at ease with them and  have various ways of being with them – many ways of opening the doors that can lead to possible meanings.

Professionally, I can offer clients these ways of helping them be with their dreams, particularly bad dreams and nightmares. For those considering taking this program: it is well worth the time, energy and effort. There is so much specifically and practically to learn about dreams and how to work with them.”

– Tom Larkin, Focusing Oriented Therapist and Certifying Coordinator

 

“I really liked both theoretical and experiential learning. I was needing a more structured and systematic knowledge about dreamwork, and this course really provided me with that. It’s a beautiful foundation. I also liked our group very much, so many beautiful people with different backgrounds and sensitivities, and I think that all of us being honest and engaged together really contributed to the richness of experience.”

– Ivana Kolakovic, Registered Psychotherapist

 

“My most loved aspects were witnessing Leslie working with dreams in a group setting, and the intimacy of the group itself. I also loved the spaciousness in the container and the levity Leslie brought to the group. Clinically, I loved the experiential aspects of focusing and dreamwork combined.  As a result of taking this program, I now move slower with my dreams and I feel more connected to figures and aspects that show up. I also feel more resourced in my work with dreams.

Something else I loved about this program is that it wasn’t formulaic, but process oriented, which really supported the individual finding their own way. It was a nice blend of clinical and personal exploration.

I would also say another benefit is the small group size, because you really get to be in a safe and intimate space. It also provides an opportunity to try on others’ dream images and expand figures within your own dreamscape.”

– Jaclyn Woods, LMFT

 

“If you’re interested in working with dreams this is a solid, inspiring, practical, evidence-based method that has empowered me to connect more deeply with my own dream life and work with my clients and their dreams with confidence.”

– Kate Tenni, Sensorimotor Art Therapist and Grief Counsellor

 

About the Instructor(s) – Here are a few comments, thank you so much

Leslie has so so much knowledge but also this beautiful talent for attunement and sensitivity to track the dreamer’s internal life

10+! Leslie was brilliant! She was clear, flexible, so empathic. She created a lovely virtual space in which to be and work, and held each of us preciously when we shared.

Leslie is thoroughly knowledgeable, extremely skilled and competent, open and welcoming, responsive, flexible, clear, articulate, tech savvy, approachable.

Robbyn is also incredibly gifted.  The sessions with her were such a helpful supplement and practice time. (Robbyn assists with the class and offers a bonus dream session between class meetings.)

For more information about the ‘EE’ program, here is the link.

 

 

Sleep Paralysis… curse or blessing?

A first encounter with sleep paralysis (SP) is usually terrifying. But for those who experience it often and learn to stay calm, it can be entryway to lucid dreaming and extraordinary states.

Ryan Hurd, a sleep paralysis expert, has experienced hundreds of episodes himself and offers a road map for those who experience it. The following is a summary of his book, Sleep Paralysis, A Guide to Hynagogic Visions & Visitors of the Night.

In Hurd’s initial encounter with SP at age 14, all he wanted to do was wake up from the nightmare: first a ring, then a menacing voice that said, ‘Darkness rules!’ A pervasive felt sense of evil. The strong feeling of being pushed down forcibly into sleep. He was left feeling crazy, haunted and reticent to talk about his experience. It was classic a SP episode, and it deeply influenced the course of his life. He later became both a dream researcher, lecturer and lifelong lucid dreamer.

 

Symptoms of Sleep Paralysis

Hurd said the symptoms of SP are “near universal” and “noted throughout history and across cultures.” An episode might include one or more of the following:

Inability to move;
a feeling of great weight on your chest, abdomen and/or throat;
hearing buzzing or crackling sounds, or voices;
difficulty breathing;
heart racing;
extreme fear;
out-of-body experience;
electrical current or shock;
seeing lots of spiders or insects;
sensing, seeing and/or bring touched by an apparition or presence;
full awareness and a sense that what is happening is very real.

Isolated SP is common – about 40% of people experience it at least once in their lifetime (and a full 75% of post-secondary students). Alarming as it is, SP is a normal part of sleep, not pathological or a sign of psychosis.* It happens most often from sleep deprivation or disrupted sleep cycles (ie shift work, jet lag, late-night partying). It is an intrusion of REM/dreaming during the transition from wake-to-sleep or sleep-to-wake. In essence, your dreams are being superimposed onto the waking state. This is why the visions that arise can feel so real.

 

Ways to Manage Sleep Paralysis

Most people who experience SP occasionally simply want the hellish experience to stop. Hurd has found the following series of responses to be the most helpful:

  • Identify to yourself that you are having an eposide of SP
  • Surrender, don’t fight it (or it intensifies)
  • Wiggle your toes or clench a fist to break the paralysis
  • Focus on calm, steady breathing
  • Wait patiently for the episode to end, usually after a minute or two

Some people experience multiple episodes of sleep paralysis, or have a series of false awakenings. If you are worried about falling asleep and back into another episode, Hurd suggests you wake up more fully before going back to sleep:

  • Expose your eyes to bright light for a least a minute
  • Get up and do 10 minute of exercise
  • Write about the encouter in your journal

Then go back to sleep! Do not make things worse with even more sleep deprivation. To prevent SP, good sleep hygiene is essential… things like sleeping and waking at the same time every day, sleeping in a cool, dark, quiet place that you feel safe in, avoiding caffeine, alcohol and strenuous exercise too close to bedtime.

 

Get to Know the ‘Stranger’

For those who have learned to relax and go with the SP experience, and are brave and curious about the presence that appears to them, Hurd suggests turning toward the apparition with openness and trust (with the caveat that not all of the figures that appear are benign). However, if it feels available to you and safe enough, he suggests you relax, trust, be curious, ask what the stranger wants. These actions can transform the presence into something helpful and healing.

He notes that many tales of hauntings and magical creatures may in fact stem from sleep paralysis. A major clue is the timing of the visitation – if the presence appears at the edges of sleep, it is likely a hypnagogic hallucination. Vampires, the legend of the Sea Hag, ghosts, out-of-body experiences and even alien abductions may be attributed to sleep paralysis. It can also be a doorway to lucid dreaming and deeply spiritual encounters.

 

Sleep Paralysis as a Doorway to Extraordinary States

Despite his initially terrifying experiences with SP, Hurd now sees these as a “blessing in disguise.” If you recognize the state you are in as SP, you are already dreaming while awake, and can use this to co-create the kinds of dreams you would like to have. He suggest that once you have come to terms with your personal beliefs and have learned to relax into an SP state, you can “focus on the kinds of dreams you want to have and watch them materialize around you.”

He describes how you can use SP as an entrée into out-of-body experiences, lucid dreaming, creativity and spiritual growth.

Hurd even suggests ways to encourage SP (and of course do the opposite if you want to prevent it): Sleep on your back; take a nap when you are sleep-deprived or have jet-lag; or wake up 2 hours before your usual time, and nap later. When you nap while sleep-deprived, there is pressure to make up for a lack of REM sleep, and this intrusion of REM can induce the mixed state of SP.

The key message in all of this is that the valence of the visions which appear to us in a hynagogic state are dependent on the degree of safety we feel. The more frightened we are, the more terrifying the images that visit. It is an example of how we co-create dreams. If we stay calm, we can engage with the dream state while maintaining lucid awareness. Hurd notes that those new to lucid dreaming often treat it as a “virtual playground’ and invite fantasy experiences like flying or sex. But deepening into the experience can lead to truly extraordinary visions and “even a taste of enlightenment.”

 

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Reference:

Hurd, Ryan (2011). Sleep Paralysis, A Guide to Hynagogic Visions & Visitors of the Night. Los Altos, CA: Hyena Press.

*Symptoms of typical isolated sleep paralysis are not considered harmful – unless they include sleep apnea, narcolepsy or other parasomnias. If you have any concerns, consult a sleep medicine professional for diagnosis and treatment.

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Creating Safety in Dream Groups: Ideas from Ullman

What’s the single most important factor in a successful dream group?

Safety.

This may be why the method of Dream Appreciation by Montague Ullman is the most popular dream group method. Every step of the way, the dreamer’s safety is considered.

What maintains the dreamer’s sense of trust in the process? Confidentiality of course, and the ability of the dreamer to stop the process at any time. Beyond the obvious, the main consideration is the deepest respect for the dreamer and their dream.

This means no leading questions or imposition of ideas from the group, however brilliant they may seem. Ullman said, “The goal is to lead the dreamer into a dialogue with their own dream.” Anything else “shifts the dreamer’s attention from the dream to the motives of the questioner.”

He uses the analogy of curling to help us understand this concept. In curling, the skip (aka dreamer) sends the rock towards its target. The sweepers clear the path for the rock, help it on its intended journey, but do not change its course. “We respect the importance of the dreamer, staying with the path of the dream rather than deflecting them into a path of our own making.”

Ullman advises against offering interpretations, ideas about symbolic meaning, or anything from outside what the dream itself contains. “I don’t think it is ever truly therapeutic to approach a dreamer with an a priori conviction about what a dream means based on a particular theory or preconceived ideas about what certain images mean.”

What kinds of inquiries should dream group members offer then? Ideally open-ended questions with no agenda other than helping the dreamer to further open the dream itself. Our questions “should always lead back to the dream.”

Questions with an agenda promote defensiveness. But if there is trust and safety, “the clarity of one’s emotional vision becomes sharper and deeper. Trust opens the dreamer up to the possiblity of discovery.”

 

From: Ullman, M. (1996). Appreciating Dreams, a group approach. Sage Publications.

Jungian Dreamwork and Focusing: Delving Deeper in the Experience of Dreaming

This article brings together my two favorite approaches in psychotherapy and personal growth: that of dreamwork and focusing. In my work, they are intertwined in ways that make it difficult to tease apart, so I am taking this opportunity to articulate the way they both differ and complement each other. I will highlight the work of Jungian dream workers who favor experiential processing, and will also summarize Eugene Gendlin’s ideas about how to work with dreams.

 

The Jungian approach to dreams

Although my interest in dreams is lifelong, I first formally studied dreamwork at Pacifica Graduate Institute, one of North America’s foremost schools for Jungian and depth psychology. While there are some branches of Jungian thought that can get quite theoretical, this is not the approach taken at Pacifica, where they stress the experiential aspects of depth psychology. There are strong parallels between the many dreamwork methods that I consider both Jungian and focusing-oriented. They key to both is the felt experience of the dreamer.

Carl Jung posited that there is not only a personal unconscious from which dream material arises, but also a collective unconscious common to all mankind and that truly numinous dreams have this kind of power. He called these universal forces archetypes, motifs familiar to us all: child, father, mother, lover, wise man/woman and so on.

Jung developed an extensive theory about the meaning of dreams, and believed dream workers should possess vast knowledge of myths, legends and symbols that could appear in any dream so as to amplify the personal aspect of the dream image into something more collective or archetypal. However, it is a mistake to assume that he was imposing all of this onto dreams from an academic pedestal. In fact, he was very interested in the lived experience of dreams, and developed a technique he called active imagination, suggesting that dreamers re-enter the dreamworld and continue where the dream left off, dreaming it onward in the therapy session and beyond. These experiential techniques are very like Gendlin’s focusing, an experiential method of inquiring into the body.

The beauty of dreamwork is that it can take many forms. One can work with a dream on a personal level and make great leaps forward in consciousness. One can also approach the dream in a sacred way that brings one closer to the universal source of dreaming and feel touched by its numinosity. I think the reason dreams are so fascinating is that they are truly magical, truly other and if one enters the experience of the dreaming, one cannot help but be enlarged by it. In fact, many dream experts believe the main purpose of dreaming is just that: to enlarge our perspective; sometimes they do this gently, and sometimes in a shocking manner. At times, a shock can be just what’s needed to jolt us out of outmoded ways of being.

 

Approaches to dreams from depth psychologists

Jungian scholars whose interest is depth psychology focus on the experience of dreaming; they talk about less mining of the dream for personal insight, and more about tending the dream. They often use focusing extensively in the way they do dreamwork though they may not use that term. In the course of their work, they have developed a reverence for the dreamtime. They ask not, how can the dream serve me, but, how can I serve the dream? What does it ask of me?

James Hillman (1979) in The Dream and the Underworld took issue with the modern method of mining dreams for personal meaning. He is a thinker, a contrarian and likes to turn widely-accepted ideas on their heads. Hillman said he follows Freud and Jung in some of their ideas: “Freud by insisting that the dream has nothing to do with the waking world but is psyche speaking to itself in its own language: and Jung by insisting that the ego requires adjustment to the night world. I shall not be following them in bringing the dream into the dayworld in any other form than its own, implying that the dream may not be envisaged either as a message to be deciphered for the dayworld (Freud) or as a compensation to it (Jung)” (p. 13).

Hillman goes on to say that the only valid way to approach dreaming is to enter into its underworld realm, subjecting ourselves to the descent, not trying to use it for our own purposes. He does not think we need to add anything, or compensate from what’s not there. “Each dream has its own fulcrum and balance, compensates itself, is complete as it is… We cannot see the soul until we experience it, and we cannot understand the dream until we enter it “ (p. 80).

Hillman eschews the gestalt tradition of having dreamers enter into the experience of various dream figures as though they are parts of one’s own psyche. “This mode of dream interpretation becomes just one more modern way of inflating the ego” (p. 99).

Still, entering into the consciousness of various dream figures remains an accepted means of working a dream. Robert Bosnak (1996) is one modern dream worker who relies heavily on this Gestalt method. He says that,  “While dreaming, there are several different carriers of consciousness.”  We most often experience our dreams from the point of view of our dream ego, but Bosnak believes “one of the purposes of dreamwork is to experience the dream from as many facets as possible.”

He talks about making transits into the experience of other dream figures, to relinquish briefly our habitual point of view and enter into something that is other. In fact, one can enter into not just the people and animals in a dreamscape, but any significant feature. He offers an example of a man who enters into a deep freeze. “This brings about a change of attitude, a different sense of being alive” (p. 54).

Bosnak believes we can work only with living dreams, ones in which we are still able to re-enter the dreaming experience. Fresh dreams can be from years past, but most are recent. They are dreams where we can still sense in a bodily way. Bosnak asks dreamers to go very slowly back into the dream recalling as much detail as possible, paying particular attention to the others in the dream. He suggests you drop down into a liminal state and then enter into the consciousness of the other in your dream through sensing into your body. He calls is making a “transit” (p. 44) into the dream other. This is very similar to the focusing move of entering the felt sense from its point of view.

The attitude is a focusing one of curiosity, acceptance, and a sense that there is autonomy in what we are encountering, something to resonate with, not something we try to bend to our will.  Both focusing and dreamwork take place in the imaginal world, the world of image. There is a sense of autonomy about the image, as in working with the felt sense. We can experience it but we do not control its movements.

Pacifica founder Stephen Aizenstat (2009) does believe in talking to the animals and other figures in dreams, but respectfully and only once one has built a relationship to the dream figure. His favorite approach to a dream is the question, “Who’s visiting now?” This, followed by  a receptive, clear space in which the dream itself can respond, in the present, in a living, embodied way.

Aizenstat suggests a way of working with dreams beyond the Freudian idea of association, or the Jungian idea of amplification, to that of animation. Aizenstat calls his practice dream tending — working with the living image. Although it is not a felt sense, the interaction with the dream figure has many qualities similar to focusing: the act of bringing your open, curious attention to it. Its autonomy. The need to stay with it even when it might appear scary — that with our loving attention to it, from an observing, safe distance, it will transform, as will what it represents in our life.

 

Eugene Gendlin on Focusing and Dreams

Gendlin (1986) offers a similar perspective in his approach to working with dreams. Although he posits his methods of dreamwork as a long series of potential questions to ask of the dream, the attitude he suggests one should bring to these questions is not one of interrogation. Like Aizenstat, he suggests that one should “love and enjoy the dream whether you interpret it or not” (p. 27).

He sees great value in dreamwork, and even suggests it is as a shortcut to learning how to do focusing. He says the hardest part of learning how to focusing is letting a felt sense come. “With a dream, that is often easy. A dream usually brings you a felt sense. If not, it soon comes if you attend your body while pondering the dream” (p. 3). Gendlin sees dreamwork as having two stages: the breakthrough, where you discover what the dream is about and a second stage, where you get something new from the dream.

He also introduces a technique he calls bias control to help someone working with their own dreams overcome the natural tendency to interpret a dream based on what one already knows. This basically entails entertaining the opposite of what we might be drawn to, entering into the consciousness of a dream figure we dislike, for example. “A new growth direction is often the opposite of what we value most. That doesn’t mean we change our value to the opposite, not at all. We merely expand them a little” (p. 61).

 

Completing the dream process: Carrying forward

If you go through the experiential process of fully tending a dream, it will require not just a widening of perspective, but some sort of concrete action or ritual to ground and symbolize the change in you. An even better way to look at it might be: what are you going to offer in response to this dream? These lines of dreamwork practice we have been following ask that we ponder how we will serve the dream, rather than how it will serve us.

In Gendlin’s model, this may come in the form of an action step, some small but concrete step we can take in response to the dream. He gives an example where a man’s “dream points to a small action step he might not otherwise have thought of. This may seem a tiny step when compared with the whole regime this dreamer might need… As you will see if you try them, small action steps have a lot of power. They are hard to do. They let you encounter and work through what is in your way. They change you… Only action ultimately resolves more problems. Therefore action steps are needed as an integral part of what dreams mean… and only in actions does your body get to live the new way for more than a few symbolic moments!” (p. 114).

 

Dreaming from the Source

Dreams and the felt sense in focusing come from the same source, what Whitmont calls the Guiding Self, or Jung’s Self, a “superior, if archaic intelligence, bent on offering meaningful new attitudes,” (Whitmont Perera, p. 17).

Both focusing and dreamwork are difficult to do alone because of this — because they offer a viewpoint different from our customary one. Dreams are perhaps further from the ego’s standpoint because they often originate from deeper in the unconscious. Or, they may originate entirely outside of our realm of consciousness in a realm all their own. Either way, they are a stretch for us to grapple with. They offer growth potential, but also the potential to be disruptive or disturbing. Focusing is more of a middle ground between dreams and ego, and focusing on dreams is yet another intermediate step, bridging the gap between dream and ego, making dreams more accessible and potentially accelerating change.

Dreams are a product of the life force within us, as is the felt sense we contact through focusing. There are no bad dreams. The question is how to come into relationship with them, as you would a felt sense, to gain ‘life-forward’ momentum. And then, how do you embody this shift in the world?

 

References

Aizenstat, S. (2009) Dream Tending, New Orleans, Louisiana: Spring Journal Inc.

Boa, F. (1988) The Way of the Dream, Boston, Mass., Shambhala Publications.

Bosnak, R. (1996) Tracks in the Wilderness of Dreaming, New York: Delta Publishing  a division of Bantam Doubleday Dell.

Freud, S. (1909) The Interpretation of Dreams, New York: Modern Library, Random House (1950 edition).

Hillman, J. (1979) The Dream and the Underworld, New York: Harper and Row.

Gendlin, E.T. (1986) Let Your Body Interpret Your Dreams, Wilmette, Illinois: Chiron Publications.

Jung, C.J. Collected Works. Bollingen Series, Princeton University Press.

Jung, C.J. (1961) Memories, Dreams, Reflections, New York: Random House.

Whitmont, E. and Perera, S. (1989) Dreams, A Portal to the Source, London: Routledge.