Why We Forget Our Dreams: A New Perspective

One of the most enduring paradoxes in the field of dream research is the mystery of dream amnesia. Why do we forget most of our dreams, even though they’re often vivid, emotionally charged, and potentially important for our survival? A recent paper by Zhao and colleagues offers an elegant solution to this puzzle.

Here’s the conundrum: Many scientists believe dreams serve crucial biological functions, helping us rehearse responses to threats and practice social interactions. These experiences can be incredibly vivid and emotionally intense – yet most of us can barely remember our dreams unless we wake up right in the middle of one. This seems counterintuitive. If dreams are so important, shouldn’t we remember them clearly?

The answer lies in understanding how different types of memory work in our brains. The researchers propose that forgetting our dreams isn’t a bug – it’s a feature. Here’s why: If we retained vivid memories of our dreams, we might confuse them with real experiences. Imagine having a heated argument with your partner in a dream and waking up angry at them for something that never actually happened. Not ideal, right?

But here’s the clever part – while we may forget the specific content of our dreams, the skills and behaviors we practice during them can still benefit us. Think about it like learning to ride a bike: you don’t need to remember every practice session to maintain the skill. Similarly, when we rehearse dealing with threats or social situations in our dreams, our brains can retain the practical lessons without keeping the specific dream memories.

This explains why dream amnesia makes sense from an evolutionary perspective. Our brains suppress the explicit, narrative memories of dreams to avoid confusion with real events, while preserving the implicit learning and skill development that occurred during the dream.

The system isn’t perfect – sometimes dreams do break through this forgetting mechanism, particularly when they’re highly emotional or frightening — most nightmares are easily recalled for example. But biological systems don’t need to work perfectly to be beneficial. The key is that dream amnesia helps us maintain a clear distinction between our dreaming and waking experiences while still allowing us to benefit from the practice and learning that occurs during our dreams. This group of reseachers are clear proponents of the idea that a major purpose of dreams is simulation. Other possible functions include memory consolidation, emotion processing and creative inspiration.

This new way of explaining dream amnesia provides a fresh perspective on the value of our forgotten dreams. Even though we may not remember them, our nightly adventures may continue to shape our skills and behaviors in subtle but important ways. So the next time you wake up with only fragments of a dream remaining, don’t worry about having lost the details. Possibly, as Zhao and collegaues suggest, the benefits of your dream experiences stay with you long after the memories fade.

 

Zhao, J., Schoch, S. F., Valli, K., & Dresler, M. (2024). Dream function and dream amnesia: dissolution of an apparent paradox. Neuroscience and biobehavioral reviews, 105951.

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